It is possible that she has not even visited that thread (the Godwyn's Law issue) after leaving hurt, and hasn't seen what happened - thus the misunderstandings built up. (I have seen parts of that discussion which you haven't, and they reinforce this view.) As for spat having been mended - whatever his protests, Jérôme is a good diplomat, but I think a spat is truly mended if there was direct communication between the parties.

_{*Lunatic*, n.
One whose delusions are out of fashion.}