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But I swear to you, I get pestered every day for my opinion on this or that or the other thing, as if my opinion was some indication of something greater than just the opinion of one 30-something American chick.  As if I have a direct line to George Bush and some magical control over how he makes decisions.
I laughed out loud at this.  I spend a lot of time in Europe, but the last time I lived there was the late '80's, in the UK.  I had exactly this experience, and often.  I would be at a meeting with 10 people around the table,,,,small talk before the meeting,,,and usually some American topic would come up--10 heads turn in unison to me for explanation,,,,as though I had a hot line to Reagan or Bush Sr.

and then when Europe won that golf thing, must have been '88 (walker cup? or whatever--i'm not a golfer), the celebration by a few of them because they had beat America!  I thought to get my goat--they seemed quote disappointed when it was obvious I could care less.  Hmmm, nationalism EU vs US?

by wchurchill on Sat Dec 9th, 2006 at 01:08:17 AM EST
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Hm. What you write (1) is more Britain-specific (especially that thing on golf -- most European couldn't care less about golf!), (2) reflects more what American expats have to endure as 'representants' of their country than how much Europeans speak about America among themselves. E.g., your presence is take as opportunity to talk more about the subject, and sure you notice this strongly. (I'm not saying the attitude, also described by stormypresent, is not bad in itself, but that you have a filtered sample for evaluating obsession with all things US.)

*Lunatic*, n.
One whose delusions are out of fashion.
by DoDo on Sat Dec 9th, 2006 at 04:30:39 AM EST
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I think your comment may be true of this one particuler experience.  I told it only because I found it ironic that it was so similar to Stormy experience,,,and I found it was quite humorous.  (Interesting however, on the sporting level, there does some to be some particular glee in the World Cup when America loses.  And I found that glee on the continent, actually not in the UK.  There was even some comment on a thread here that the American's were not going to be disadvantaged on the refereeing,,,and that certainly was the case......though it's also the case that we are not a top 8 team, imo.)

But do you mean to broaden my comment beyond my specific story, and to my broader experiences of living in Europe, traveling frequently there, and doing business in Europe (not just the UK).  It's an interesting thought that we all to some extent see things because of who we are, I guess--ie. our experiences are partially due to who we are.  But I think one gets through that as you develop friendships, have long discussions that yield deeper understandings, and through all of one's experiences of decades (reading, discussing , observing) you gain a pretty deep understanding of the other's mind.

by wchurchill on Sat Dec 9th, 2006 at 10:23:02 AM EST
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