And yes, my friends would know the difference between who and whom, and they do say "you and me" instead of "you and I" and one even knows what an ablative absolute is!
Can I have those hours back?
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The whole point of this discussion is that, if you don't have even a basic grasp of syntax, you're going to find it hard to learn a Foraign language. And God help you if you need to learn a flexive (case-based) language without understanding syntax and parts of speech. Those whom the Gods wish to destroy They first make mad. -- Euripides