and if the shoe fits...

That's a nasty insinuation. (Besides, it's better to think about whether your perceptions could be wrong before hitting out.)

if a blogger here singles me (or anyone) out for derision, he/she opens the door to response in kind.

Don't you believe that an eye for an eye makes the whole world go blind?

migeru's various attempts to diss me

There you are judgemental. And that at the same time you face the same:

it's you who ascribe a negative tenor to those terms!

...while it's you who ascribe an intention of tricking or dissing you to Migeru's replies.

your take, reflected back, well done...

I read insinuation in that, too (tho' in this case it may be my poor English).

haha...are they so polite and restrained as to need you to do their job of keeping the blog the way you want it...?

This is again expressed in a personalising way.

Melo, while I would have expressed it differently, I am one of those afew speaks for (at least on part of the issues brought up -- to be clear I accept part of your defenses above), but I on one hand didn't want to insult you, on the other hand I am among those who (as per your above suggestion) rather scroll down whenever they see such a rambling from you rather than get in a worthless dispute.

I honestly think you take disagreement on certain issues too personally.

_{*Lunatic*, n.
One whose delusions are out of fashion.}