(But then again my girlfriend and her friends made the inside pages of the Guardian ten years ago heckling some academics for not being feminist enough at a conference. so I'm probably not the best person to ask either) Life should consist in at least fifty percent pure waste of time, and the rest doing what you please.
Why would anyone find anyone even remotely interesting who wasn't interested in being equal?
I really haven't the faintest idea, but trust me, they're out there.