Charity and pity are good feelings that come from sympathy and empathy. It makes one jump to the help of some one else.

charity is that and more.

does the word 'vibration' resonate with you?

have you never been given something by someone in such a way that you felt poorer afterwards?

as you often do, you weave truths in with opinion is such a way that comes off as sophistic, to me.

ValentinD:

honour or other big and empty words.

no need for reply! we seem to be talking past one another. we both tried, and that's respectable.

The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it. Chinese Proverb.