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Well done to you all for the protest.  Do you know if it hit media elsewhere?  

I'm appalled at the blatant transphobia from Julie Bindel and the campaign still has a long way to go to create a shift where more people can see that it is utterly unacceptable to air those kind of views.  If she'd said something similar about disabled people, there would be uproar.

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 05:05:47 AM EST
Well, I did mention one report in the Pink Paper, but Julie Bindel has her own highly inventive response in the Guardian. She has a version of gay history in there that is astonishingly one-eyed. But the best bit is this;-

'But I for one do not wish to be lumped in with an ever-increasing list of folk defined by "odd" sexual habits or characteristics. Shall we just start with A and work our way through the alphabet? A, androgynous, b, bisexual, c, cat-fancying'

I pointed out the strange correspondence between feminist attacks on the transgendered and Chrisitan attacks on the gay community, but I never expected her to actually echo the "all gays are paeophiles and want to marry their pet spaniel" attacks of the republicans.

Apparently all she wants to do is be left alone; fine by us, just stop attacking us in the press like you did in this article. But really all she's doing is whininng that "this community is vicious - if you attack it, it defends itself". Our bad it seems.

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 06:10:48 AM EST
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She's attacking the gay community there now?  Who isn't she trying to alienate?  

My eye is on the letter b which is a fairly typical response to my sexuality from lesbians who tell me that I have to be one thing or another.

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 06:29:07 AM EST
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Having read it again, the article does descend into incoherence by the end; which strongly suggests we rattled her. I think she may come to regret this article cos in her intemperance, she aimed too widely and that will have been noted.

Despite having a couple of strangely supportive scolds on the threads, the Facebook discussions didn't go well for her. whilst continually calling for a "debate", she kept evading questions until her refusal to address certain points became the whole issue. She started off feeling like she was controllng the debate, and some fools did fall into the trap, but she lost control of it under pressure and pops in now and again to complain that we're the mean-trannies who are hatin' on her. Quite ridiculous.

ps did you see my update ?

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 06:42:11 AM EST
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Saw your update but can't find the video.

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 06:53:30 AM EST
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OOps sorry



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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 06:56:47 AM EST
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I see you!!!

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 06:58:33 AM EST
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Yes, I think there is a certain amount of suspicion about the B within the gay community. I've heard lesbians say something along the lines of "you can always rely on a bi, they'll always leave you for a man". Plus, JB is of the persuasion that believes that lesbianism is a higher calling and that wasting your energies on a man is a betrayal of women.

But that's old fashioned 2nd wave essentialist bs, 3rd wave feminism has a more, open and accepting view, its a more mature feminism.

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 06:48:54 AM EST
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Yeah I have had that discussion about different types of feminism with a friend before.  The essentialist approach is ridiculous and destructive.  It feels as though women want to punish men for being men, and to punish women who don't agree with their view which then does nothing to address inequality.  It just continues to alienate women even further.

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 06:56:55 AM EST
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A guy I used to know lived with his wife and her girlfriend. The ammount of abuse they used to get at meetings for not being sufficiently comitted to the cause was unreal. Including claims that by not leaving the father of their child that they were opressing the gay and lesbian community.

Any idiot can face a crisis - it's day to day living that wears you out.
by ceebs (ceebs (at) eurotrib (dot) com) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 09:14:58 AM EST
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If the child had been male they would have been "ordered" to have leave him behind. Second wave feminism loved its hierarchies of who was real, who was more victimised, who was the real lesbian. It was a caste system invented by the rule makers to ensure they remained top dog bitch to enforce a "natural" order.

It's where the slur about "black gay diabled whales" originated. You'd read Spare Rib and the writer would slip in what their position in the hierarchy was to ensure everyone knew where they stood in relation.

Of course, women aren't competitive or bullying at all. How could it even be suggested ?

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 09:38:56 AM EST
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Possibly power is made more alluring by having been on the receiving end of domination...

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by linca (antonin POINT lucas AROBASE gmail.com) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 09:41:11 AM EST
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What was interesting was watching people create pecking orders whilst angrily denying they were doing any such thing. Everybody involved really beieved fervently that they had flat structures where all voices were equal when it was blatantly a hierarchy of assumed privilege. Such a joke.

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 09:48:26 AM EST
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Helen:
It's where the slur about "black gay diabled whales" originated.

I do not understand what this slur is about at all. If anyone could explain it to me I would be grateful.

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by A swedish kind of death on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 01:11:19 PM EST
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I just followed the Guardian link, and this is probably the worst form of politically self-defeating selfishness there is (even aside from the moral aspects, which you've already covered).

Somehow she makes me think of Mary Cheney.

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by dvx (dvx.clt ät gmail dotcom) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 07:35:58 AM EST
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the comments thread is entertaining. I'm increasingly convinced that the article was a colossal own goal for her.

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 07:47:16 AM EST
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But can she see it, or is everybody else just self obsessed and unreasonable?

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 07:51:08 AM EST
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No I don't think she can. One of the things I have noted is that some political philosphies perform the same function in some people's lives as that of religion. It provides a complete and universal set of answers to life's questions and so long as you stay true to the "word", all will be well.

Just as with religionists, a lot of politicos, be they free-marketeers or communists can only interpret the evidence of the world's behaviours in the light of their understanding. Anything that doesn't fit is  rendered invisible to them or inventively explained away. Dinosaurs ? Easy. Children rode brontosauri to school before god sent the flood to kill them all.

We've seen the same with other radfems who seem ot live in a very much different world (a much darker one too) than the one you or I perceive. She is utterly impervious to criticism. Doctors tell her she is wrong about transgenderism and she dismisses them as being part of the transgender-medical complex, a sinister patriarchal organisation dedicated to finding male dupes to mutilate and re-programme to send out into the world to colonise and infiltrate the sisterhood. Fortunately she is wise to their games.

You cannot reach her, which is why we refuse her when she offers "debate" because the only discussion she'll accept is one where she gets to tell us that we're all freaks and wrong and she's right.

Instead we seek to reach out to feminists and most of the LGB community and convince them that our fight is their fight. We keep returning to the point that nobody loses their job for who they sleep with, but how they look or behave. So looking after the T is self-protection for LGB. Radfems can't be reached and it's our job to isolate, not engage with them.

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 08:38:59 AM EST
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Some people are just utterly incapable of stepping outside of themselves and seeing how they have been perceived.  

I wonder what it will take to create a social shift in the attitudes towards transgender people?  A colleague mentioned to me a few weeks back how recently ie the last 3 or 4 years, being gay has suddenly taken a shift to becoming far more socially acceptable but without there being one key turning point that we can point to to explain the shift.  Whereas with things like gender and race there are some defining moments that has created a shift in the public consciousness.

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 02:52:02 PM EST
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She would probably be happier writing for another newspaper.

The implicit (almost explicit) message seems to be, I've got mine, now why don't the rest of you whiners STFU.

Mary Cheney indeed.

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by dvx (dvx.clt ät gmail dotcom) on Sat Nov 8th, 2008 at 08:17:36 AM EST
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there is a fantastic comment in the response thread to her article on CiF, I admit to knuckle-gnawing jealousy of her grasp of the issues and her elegant considered reply. I'm going to quote ZoeBrain in full

Intersexed people tend to keep a low profile. It's safer for us, and besides which, so much of the Gender Politics based on competing philosophies that ignore medical facts reminds us too much of Kindergarten. Not a happy place for some of us, by the way, And medical facts are things that can kill us if we ignore them, some of our medical conditions are life-threatening.

There are amongst us people who identify as male - but with a congenital medical problem. There are those of us who identify as female, again with a congenital medical problem. I'm in that group, by the way. There are those of us who identify as neither, as Neutrius. And those who identify as Androgyne, something of both. Actual degree of physical Intersexuality has little impact on this, women can be born with bodies that look mainly male, and the reverse.

There are a few of us whose appearance naturally changes over time - see Gender change in 46,XY persons with 5alpha-reductase-2 deficiency and 17beta-hydroxysteroid dehydrogenase-3 deficiency. by Cohen-Ketternis. Most such natural "sex reversals" are Female to Male, I'm in the tiny minority that go the other way, but the legal and social problems are much the same. Unlike most who are Intersexed, we can't hide.

JB doesn't think we exist - or less charitably, if we do, then she thinks we shouldn't. You see, we are acutely aware of the real differences between Typical Male and Typical Female, as well as all the bluriness and complexity that makes a strict binary model of either Gender or Sex meaningless. We know that for some, the binary models fit really well, no matter what political philosophy you espouse. And for some, they don't fit at all, regardless of what various religious or political beliefs you hold. Reality doesn't care.

Call me old-fashioned, but I thought the one battle we feminists won fair and square was to convince at least those left of centre that gender roles are made up. They are not real. We play at them. We develop traditional masculine or feminine traits by being indoctrinated, not because we are biologically programmed to behave in those ways.

Our very existence denies that. Gender Roles are a social construct, there's no "gene" for girls preferring pink and boys blue. But Gender is not. There are very real neurological differences in the way we think. It's a Bi-Modal distribution, two peaks, one typically female, the other typically male, but with overlap and some who are in the middle. Complex I know, not simple, but biology is like that.

Transsexuals - those whose emotional responses and thinking patterns (as opposed to learned Gender Role) are atypical for their body form get extreme discomfort. Some have neurology, a brain-body map, that gives them instincts contrary to their anatomy.This gives such intense discomfort, it's indescribable. Many suicide, and substance abuse and induced mental illness is common. Surgery to align brain and body has a 98% success rate (though the co-morbidities may remain after the cause is removed), and every other treatment - from "talking cures" to the full "Clockwork Orange" aversion therapy has a 0.000% success rate. That's in the literature, anyone on the net can verify it.

See BiGender and the Brain for some of the science about gender.

JB is Transphobic by the definition in Stonewall's own pamphlet, but this post by her shows it goes beyond that. She doesn't want to be associated with anyone at all different from her. And she claims the right to decide what's best for others on the basis of her normality, and in the name of philosophically pure Radical Feminist Lesbianism.

She's a "worthy contender" for "Journalist of the year" - in her own mind. Others differ, and in her opinion, they have no right to.

The problem is that STONEWALL, the organisation, is guilty not of Transphobia, but of "aiding and abetting". JB is just another shock-jock columnist, one who gets the Grauniad extra readers by being "controversial". A professional Troll, whose eccentric views are exploited to sell papers. That she often writes articles on genuine issues such as gynephobic violence is a bonus.

Having such a person, one who has now revealed herself in this article as highly Xenophobic, nominated for an award is against every principle of diversity STONEWALL stands for. Or should do. We have been given good reason to doubt that now,

I have nothing to add except a green glow to read it by.

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Sun Nov 9th, 2008 at 06:55:21 AM EST
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That really is excellent.

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Sun Nov 9th, 2008 at 07:26:39 AM EST
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Thanks! I try.
by Zoe Brain (aebrain@webone.com.au) on Sun Nov 9th, 2008 at 11:42:51 AM EST
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Glad you could find us (didn't know you could track a cut and paste).

And thanks for that comment, tho I gave up on wading through the comments on CiF and wouldn't have seen it if Paula Thomas hadn't directed me from Facebook.

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Sun Nov 9th, 2008 at 12:38:23 PM EST
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You can't track a cut and paste as such, though you can see that visitors are coming by way of a certain link. You can also always google or otherwise search everything published on the net, with more or less automatication.

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by A swedish kind of death on Sun Nov 9th, 2008 at 12:46:23 PM EST
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Helen:
Our very existence denies that. Gender Roles are a social construct, there's no "gene" for girls preferring pink and boys blue. But Gender is not. There are very real neurological differences in the way we think. It's a Bi-Modal distribution, two peaks, one typically female, the other typically male, but with overlap and some who are in the middle. Complex I know, not simple, but biology is like that.

This is where I know there is a conflict between many transsexuals and many queer-feminists. Both groups are (imo) primarily working from self-observation. In one case, Gender is experienced as a biological fact, in the other Gender is experienced as a social construct.

From the short argument presented in the comment here I would suppose one could have a heated debate around the meaning of "think", what constitutes "neurological differences", interpretation of data, how thought-patterns evolve and relate to society etc. Or it could start in some other end.

As both groups tend to have incorporated the experience deaply in the understanding of self, I have rarely seen a productive discussion however and would be loath to start a flamewar.

Just to clarify, Bendel does not appear to be a queer-feminist. She has actually nothing to do with the comment I have just written.

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by A swedish kind of death on Sun Nov 9th, 2008 at 12:34:36 PM EST
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Actually, if you follow the link I included back to zoe's place, you'll find a much more considered explanation of current medical thought about developmental brain physiology and its implications for identity and sexuality amongst other issues.

I don't profess to understand it in any but the broadest terms (Zoe's the rocket scientist, not me), but I have always found the manichean versions of nature vs nurture unpersuasive.

Gender identity must be to a greater extent innate, for the simple reason that we are primarily animals. Animals aren't just higher apes, they're the lowest mammals, gender identity is hard-coded in the same structures identified in birds, reptiles and fish. It's not just our lizard brain that tells us if we're male or female, it's older than that.

What nurture does is about learned gender roles. But gender roles can't trump identity. Oh, you can fake it, I did, but it doesn't make you happy.
eg David Reimer

David Reimer (August 22, 1965 as Bruce Reimer - May 4, 2004) was a Canadian man who was born as a healthy boy, but was sexually reassigned and raised as female after his penis was accidentally destroyed during circumcision. Psychologist John Money oversaw the case and reported the reassignment as successful, as evidence that gender identity is primarily learned. Milton Diamond later reported that Reimer never identified as female, and that he began living as male at age 14. Reimer later went public with his story to discourage similar medical practices. He committed suicide at the age of 38.
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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Sun Nov 9th, 2008 at 12:52:01 PM EST
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The Nature/Nurture Debate is one of those irritating, binary, intellectual debacles that refuses to Go Away.  From the wikipedia article:

This question was once considered to be an appropriate division of developmental influences, but since both types of factors are known to play such interacting roles in development, many modern psychologists consider the question naive - representing an outdated state of knowledge. The famous psychologist Donald Hebb is said to have once answered a journalist's question of "which, nature or nurture, contributes more to personality?" by asking in response, "which contributes more to the area of a rectangle, its length or its width?"

by ATinNM on Sun Nov 9th, 2008 at 03:21:28 PM EST
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Gender identity is certainly not hardcoded in all fishes, considered that in some species most specimen change sex very regularly...

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by linca (antonin POINT lucas AROBASE gmail.com) on Sun Nov 9th, 2008 at 07:40:52 PM EST
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Ambiguities can be present as well. I know I  discussed the ambiguities of the intersexed condition on an OT about a week or two ago, specifically denying that the situation is always a binary; merely saying it tends towards being so. Indeed, zoe herself  spontaneously changed sex in her late teens (a very rare intersex condition - the legend of Tiresias).

There is no reason why a mechanism cannot exist that allows a fluity in creatures for which it is a specifically beneficial adaptive behaviour, but generally it is a hard-coded situation because it is the mechanism that provides best results across populations.

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 05:48:32 AM EST
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If we talk about animals in general, it is mostly not hard coded ; think of hermaphrodite snails... The need for hardcoding mostly comes the female reproductive organ being large enough that having it present in all specimen becomes inefficient. The need for it to be hardcoded in the mind, i.e. with a real instinctual behavioral difference between male and female, comes from the need to raise the young.

And the "hardcoding" can come from many places : tortoises' sex is decided by the temperature of the eggs' surrounding, not genes. There's no reason something that indeed is subjectively felt as a hardcoding could come from very early unconscious socialisation and education - and indeed have biochemical effects. The human brain is extremely malleable.

I wonder if those studies on biochemicals, etc..., have also been conducted in places where some sort of transgenderism are socially accepted and even mandated, like, if I remember correctly, some Pacific Islands ?

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by linca (antonin POINT lucas AROBASE gmail.com) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 06:07:13 AM EST
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I didn't mention genes. In fact I tend to avoid going into the whys and wherefores of how coding happens or comes unstuck as I suspect there are multiple reasons, I'm merely interested in noting that it does.

As I said, zoe goes into some of that, but a biological science with ongoing investigation into a phenomena is not yet in any position to make definitive statements. Preliminary findings suggest we think gender identity is coded here (points to primitive part of brain) and that in higher animals it seems to be hard coded (with specific exceptions). Beyond that, write to zoe.

I'm resistant to the idea of nurture hard-coding, simply because what little of what I've read of the literature (pop simplifications, I freely confess to not understanding the full-on stuff) suggests that this is not how the brain develops. Nurture can allow fluidity of gender role and behaviour, which may suit the class of gay men more than straight men in a conformist society.

However, the superficialities of transvestism etc are possibly nurture related (I genuinely don't know) and may be able to be adopted in some socieites.  I can however tell you with considerable vehemence that transvestism was meaningless to me, it didn't scratch my itch and didn't address or reduce my inner distress.

However, regarding hard coding, I return to a point I made during an essay I wrote over a year ago; I felt physically and psychologically poisoned by testosterone; or rather the absence of oestrogen. Once I started taking oestrogen the pain melted away rather suddenly after 6 weeks. This was not something I expected as the pain of testosterone was "normalised" and was my expectation of how life felt, nor did I have any concept of wellness until it went away, so the chance of a placebo affect is unlikely (I don't discount them entirely).

It is hard to imagine how such a response could be an encultured expectation. It was purely in my head, like somebody removed a nagging tooth.

But actually I've never seen anyone come up with a description of how being transgendered feels to someone who doesn't know, it's like trying to explain colour to a blind person.

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 08:00:56 AM EST
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There was that case recently of a person with a brain a third the size of a normal brain, who despite that was fully able to behave in normal society. That's why I say the brain is very malleable.

Our society also insists on real biological links with social phenomena - parenthood is only "real" if the child bears the genes of both parents, and people will go to impressive lengths to get such a "real" child. Maybe you needed more than transvestism for similar reason, because you can't feel as a woman without the physical attributes which are so important in our society (And then, probably you really needed those hormones).

I'm also thinking of the cases of the basketball players getting late, large growth spurts, in how encultured behavior could have very large physical effects. The intersection of the cultural and the physical is much larger than we often estimate ; and much of it remains unconscious. Maybe our "nurture", our competition friendly society, causes higher testosterone levels that make transgenderism hard, whereas Pacific cultures wouldn't cause such level of testosterone, particularly for someone raised as a girl...

Sometimes the localism of much of Neuroscience and Hormonal research (like much of experimental behavioral research) is depressing : it would be interesting if these sciences studied more that US college students and a few others...

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by linca (antonin POINT lucas AROBASE gmail.com) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 08:46:31 AM EST
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To be honest you're getting into an area of poorly understood exceptions where I can only hold up my hands and say I don't know. I don't know if these things you cite prove anything, or if there is a common thread between them, let alone if it has anything to do with the extremely localised issue of gender identity.

I'm sorry. Ask Zoe, but I suspect she doesn't have a full answer either.

I go with hard coding of gender identity cos that's what medical science is so far suggesting and I go with what is described as the bi-modal bell curve model (twin peaks) for susceptibility to nurture.

I was hard codedfemale, I "know" that cos I has such a positive physiological reaction to oestrogen that the idea that it was nurture related seems ridiculous. Especially given how hard I work daily to deal with the nurtured aspects of my behaviour that remain undeniably and spirit crushingly masculine. I really do know the difference in the phenomena and I can assure you they are not the same.

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 09:32:19 AM EST
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Not late teens I'm afraid - 47. Of the cases of MtoF sex-reversal from unknown causes, all but 2 started around age 45-50. Those two happened in the mid teens.

All but one case (Terry Wright in the UK) were TS before the change. Mr Wright has become TS as the result, poor guy.

by Zoe Brain (aebrain@webone.com.au) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 07:53:44 AM EST
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whoops, sorry. I knew there were large chunks of your essay I didn't follow, I didn't realise I was that dense....ho hum.

thanks for correcting me

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by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Mon Nov 10th, 2008 at 08:03:31 AM EST
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