Eh, but isn't a rationalist approach required when it comes to making actual accusations of people?
Tendencies, perceptions, feelings -- A witch! She put the evil eye on me! Just the other day, she gave me a nasty look, and now I have these undefinable ailments...
So yeah, I'd say that if you accuse people of hostility, dismissiveness or whatever it was, you better have some examples. A 'feeling' says nothing, cannot be looked into, verified, etc. And, in a conflict, the person who cries first is not always right.