It came about from a suggestion from Loefing (who was female the last time I met her) to me (born male, now female-ish) so I never considered the gendered angle until too late.

It would be worth re-doing to take into consideration, but I don't know which gender would make for a relevant answer for me as my handedness was entirely natal.

I didn't know holding cutlery in the standard way was handed, it has never occured to me it could be done in a left handed way. So I'd never count that as a right-handed activity.

Interestingly several famous guitarists, Gary Moore, Tony Iommi and, I believe, Steve Vai, are lefties who play right handed. Jimi Hendrix was allegedly able to play right handed, although obviously not as well. FWIW I can play a RH guitar okay upside down (except fingerpicking), but a lot of habitual skills like vibrato don't work.

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