I do understand that.  But I think there is a failure here to move beyond the outdated belief that America is necessarily part of the solution and Russia is necessarily part of the problem and to begin to explore how Poland can take the reigns of its own welfare and ditto for the EU.  A stability which must rely on American imperialism -and that is what NATO is, like it or not, and fear of Russia is not a true stability, just like the missile defence is not a true defence.  And it's frankly unfair to America and Russia because it impedes our ability to become closer allies.  

A house isn't made stable by a guard dog, a shotgun and a fence.  It's the foundation and the structure that keep it stable.  Without that no external protection is going to mean shit.  And that should be where you start.  If Poland has problems, NATO isn't the solution, it's a stop-gap.

Come, my friends, 'Tis not too late to seek a newer world.