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A rather obscure thing to warn you about, isn't it?

I hope that this was quite a bit down the list, after 'some men are pigs', and 'smiling is obligatory'.

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by Ephemera on Thu May 1st, 2008 at 11:52:44 AM EST
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Hardly obscure if, as a woman, I'm more or less guaranteed.

Most women in the UK seem to be of the "all men are bastards" opinion. I've actually had rather terse conversations where my willingness to defend males has been taken as a sign that I'm still not a real woman.

Smiling isn't obligatory, but people are nicer to women so smiling is easier.

keep to the Fen Causeway

by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Thu May 1st, 2008 at 12:01:38 PM EST
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I'm personally not of the opinion that all men are bastards. Some men are really quite beautiful and wonderful people. But it is true that other men act towards women in a manner which is despicable.

It would depend on the individual actions and character of a man as to whether I would defend him, but I think it unacceptable to abuse whoever chose to do so. The women who insulted you were out of line, and you ought to have come back by asking why the hell they thought they were women? Their answer would have probably been nothing more than some essentialist or constructionist diatribe.

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by Ephemera on Thu May 1st, 2008 at 12:51:52 PM EST
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Their answer would have probably been nothing more than some essentialist or constructionist diatribe.

It has long been my argument that essentialism displaced feminism in the UK over 30 years ago. The difference between the "feminist" debates in the UK compared to say France or the US is a generational chasm.


keep to the Fen Causeway

by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Thu May 1st, 2008 at 01:02:03 PM EST
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I'm personally not of the opinion that all men are bastards. Some men are really quite beautiful and wonderful people.

Phew! I feel relieved...

"Dieu se rit des hommes qui se plaignent des conséquences alors qu'ils en chérissent les causes" Jacques-Bénigne Bossuet

by Melanchthon on Thu May 1st, 2008 at 01:04:51 PM EST
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but underneath that of course we are bastards.

Any idiot can face a crisis - it's day to day living that wears you out.
by ceebs (ceebs (at) eurotrib (dot) com) on Thu May 1st, 2008 at 01:06:00 PM EST
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Well...I'm sure there are some radfems out there who would agree with you, which is really inhuman of them.

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by Ephemera on Thu May 1st, 2008 at 01:24:37 PM EST
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