Another interesting facit, names do not denote someone, they are a part of someone like an arm or leg. In many native cultures, one does not use the name of someone who's just passed away, for s/he shouldn't be distracted on the next part of hir journey. "Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage." - Anaïs Nin
Probably apocryphal.... You can't be me, I'm taken