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there's pressure both ways, there's mental repercussions both ways. The women I've known who have had abortions had no regrets. For an interesting stat - in the university where I did my undergrad degree there had not been a single student who gave birth to a child for over a dozen years at the time I was there. This in a fifty percent female university with plenty of sexual activity and all the recklessness of horny young adults on their own for the first time.

If I were this child's parent I'd have encouraged her to have an abortion while simultaneously trying to make sure she understood that if she chose to keep it, she'd get my full support. That's presumably the sort of pressure you're talking about. But what are parents, friends, etc. supposed to do - refuse to talk about it, offer no advice?

by MarekNYC on Mon Sep 1st, 2008 at 04:34:55 PM EST
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I appreciate that you would have promised full support as a parent, but this unfortunately is not always the case.

I don't think the pressure is equally on both sides. Maybe in Poland it is that way, maybe in the US, but in Germany I'm pretty sure it isn't. And of course it depends on the milieu. In the small catholic village, things are different than in the city.

Der Amerikaner ist die Orchidee unter den Menschen
Volker Pispers

by Martin (weiser.mensch(at)googlemail.com) on Mon Sep 1st, 2008 at 04:58:36 PM EST
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Yes, the city's anonymity is liberating.

A vivid image of what should exist acts as a surrogate for reality. Pursuit of the image then prevents pursuit of the reality -- John K. Galbraith
by Migeru (migeru at eurotrib dot com) on Tue Sep 2nd, 2008 at 05:14:46 AM EST
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