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Giving up smoking is a different thing imo.  I personally don't see the harm in giving up alcohol but it is a difficult thing to do that makes you miserable knowing you can't even have one drink every so often.  How long will it last anyway, until you've lost the weight you want?  Then you fall back into bad habits?  Is it not better to create good habits that don't remove all nice things but help bring a balance in?

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Fri Jan 2nd, 2009 at 12:57:25 PM EST
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Don't know myself. I tried not drinking for two weeks last year and it worked out pretty well in reducing my consumption on the long run. I'd say try out different things and see what works.

You also have to understand that the (non-scientific) literature on doing this stuff has a vested interest in not working.

by nanne (zwaerdenmaecker@gmail.com) on Fri Jan 2nd, 2009 at 01:12:34 PM EST
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I'd agree but aside from anything else I think my liver needs a thorough rest. I've unknowingly been taking a dangerous form of oral oestrogen for the past 6 years. You can do that when you're young but only for 4 - 5 years. However it causes problems past the age of 35, especially if you take it for long periods at the doses I have.

Even tho' I've now changed medication so ease the problem, this will have strained my liver considerably and so it needs a rest. Giving up booze is something of a no-brainer decision. I've done it before and know the ropes; I feel grumpy for a couple of weeks and then I get used to it.

But i do need to lose weight as well, I've got a serious beer belly growing down below and I really don't like the look


keep to the Fen Causeway

by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Fri Jan 2nd, 2009 at 01:15:14 PM EST
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Then you have other reasons for stopping drinking/cutting it right down.  Which is different than just trying to lose weight.  It was the same for me when I had to completely cut out dairy which was incredibly hard at the time because the cravings for it were so strong and it required a big change in lifestyle and habits to be able to cut it out and not keep giving into wanting to binge. It is hard.  Good luck with it.  I'm sure you'll begin to feel lots better in yourself once you get past being grumpy.

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Fri Jan 2nd, 2009 at 01:25:49 PM EST
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Helen, You must do it. And you can. The weight will go down proportionally. Anything we can do to help - like forgiving grumpiness - just say the word ;-)

It's a Learned Behaviour Disorder. The trick is finding ways to unlearn. Unlearning takes time. Be patient.

You can't be me, I'm taken

by Sven Triloqvist on Fri Jan 2nd, 2009 at 02:06:44 PM EST
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thank you. I really only want ot give up for a month, but I suspect that it would be best not to drink until my weight is more reasonable and that may be some months away.

Still, whilst I'm unemployed not wasting what little cash I have on booze will be a good thing.

keep to the Fen Causeway

by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Fri Jan 2nd, 2009 at 02:11:51 PM EST
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Unca Sven speaks true. Do it, Helen, you can.
by afew (afew(a in a circle)eurotrib_dot_com) on Fri Jan 2nd, 2009 at 02:34:51 PM EST
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Helen, you know i stand behind you here.  The liver is not to be trifled with, though as you know i often do.  But a good cleanout works wonders, especially if you eat really healthy over the next months.  All my best.

"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage." - Anaïs Nin
by Crazy Horse on Fri Jan 2nd, 2009 at 07:04:34 PM EST
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