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I haven't known people who were abused in religious schools, at least not physically.  Emotionally, perhaps, but what I'd have consider emotional abuse, they wouldn't have.

The biggest problem I've found in people who attended religious schools is an inability to function in the real world.  They're completely lacking in street-smarts.  The public schools may suck -- okay, they do suck -- when it comes to teaching kids the material, but the kids generally come away with proper social skills and common sense.

That mostly applies to comparisons with Baptists and other Evangelicals, but even some Catholics, too.  Catholic schools ain't what they used to be, I guess, because most older people I know who attended them are very sharp (and almost universally non-practicing).

Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers. - George Carlin

by Drew J Jones (myfriends@thisispancakes.com) on Mon Jan 5th, 2009 at 01:17:07 PM EST
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I think it really depends on the type of school.  I'll be honest, protestant school kids scare me.  However, the inner-city kids who go to Catholic schools, and there are A LOT of them given the huge immigration of Hispanic families, are pretty freaking social and street-smart.  

The kids who go to secular private school also seem socially awkward to me.  

I think it has more to do with the level of isolation from society than the religion factor.  How private is the school, and are your parents sending you there to "protect" you from the world, or to educate you?

Come, my friends, 'Tis not too late to seek a newer world.

by poemless on Mon Jan 5th, 2009 at 01:55:40 PM EST
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I definitely think there's an urban vs suburban element to it that's derived from the kind of family this or that kid comes from.  Obviously it's going to be tough to be isolated in a city, while I think suburbs are partly designed to facilitate it in a similar way to the private schools I'm familiar with.

I've never seen a secular private school, let alone known anyone who attended one.  Or are you talking about charter/magnet schools and the like?

Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers. - George Carlin

by Drew J Jones (myfriends@thisispancakes.com) on Mon Jan 5th, 2009 at 02:10:09 PM EST
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I suppose the correct term is "Specialized schools".  Like IMSA, Indiana Academy, the "Fame" HS in NY, etc.  I guess they all get different types of funding.  But they are not just open to anyone.  I'm pretty sure the Latin School and the Lab Schools in Chicago are private & secular.

Come, my friends, 'Tis not too late to seek a newer world.
by poemless on Mon Jan 5th, 2009 at 02:33:16 PM EST
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Really?  There are quite a few in Los Angeles.  Also, wouldn't all those fancy prep schools back east be considered secular private schools?
by Zwackus on Mon Jan 5th, 2009 at 07:08:24 PM EST
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Prep schools are a Yankees-who-think-they're-Brits thing, so I don't know a lot about them, but I think most have religious affiliations (usually Episcopalian).  Could be wrong.

Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers. - George Carlin
by Drew J Jones (myfriends@thisispancakes.com) on Mon Jan 5th, 2009 at 11:38:04 PM EST
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