I actually think that all that "pushing" and unnecessary show of guy's (not gay's) nudity in sport's locker rooms is actually bad taste...

So you're objecting to heterosexual behaviour in male locker rooms ? And youthful too, cos my memory was that it was really just schoolboy stuff. However, I don't think anybody is forcing you to take part in anything you find distasteful and it seems that communal changing facilities ring that bell for you. Okay, cool.

But I'm not sure it has anythig to do with guys, straight or gay, changing together generally. Most gay guys manage to get through their days without shagging the nearest male they can put their hands on, in fact given societies general distaste, gay guys are usually much more discreet (not always, cottagers are pathetic) and much much more in control of their desires than heteros. Gay guys rarely harrass f'rinstance.

So, what you're circling around without saying it is a variant of the gay panic defence, which is the hetero guys variant of the feminist attack on teh trans. It's kinda old and very very tired, not to say tiresome, but if that's where you are, then that's where you are.

Let's just say most of us are so over it and move on.

keep to the Fen Causeway