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I went to Llandrindod today with two union colleagues to talk to their Women's AGM about women in public life, a topic I feel very passionately about.

Harriet Harman caused a lot of controversy but I believe she was absolutely right when she said that the Cabinet should never again be run by only men.  Women are hugely under represented across so many areas of life, from local to national politics, at high levels and on boards of organisations, and on various other committees.

Women tend to have different life experiences to men simply because our society is still strongly driven by constructed gender roles, women still bear the bulk of caring responsibilities, there is still gender segregation in the labour market, glass ceilings in careers, and unequal pay.   The causes of this are so deeply entrenched and unless women reach a critical mass in terms of the numbers who hold positions of power and influence and can change public policy, and change the strategic priorities that drive organisations then we are never going to see gender equality.

We need more women in public life, we need more role models who support other women to follow behind them, to create change for a fairer and more equal society.  But we can't just go looking around pointing at other women to do this, we have a responsibility to step up and lead and take the responsibility on ourselves too.

This isn't a fight of women vs men, it is a fight of all of us vs the dominant, small minded, bigoted alpha men that hold all the power and influence and won't let anyone else get through who is not like them.  We need more diversity, people with wider life experiences who understand the lives and issues facing other people in our communities. How else can we represent people and find solutions to the issues affecting our society if we have no insight into people's real lives?

Ad astra per aspera

by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Sat Dec 12th, 2009 at 01:04:57 PM EST
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Hmm, I do sometimes wonder that the women who make it to the top are more like the alpha men" in attitude than they'd care to admit.

all of the people in cabinet are a bit freakish in some ways. As I think over the years there are vanishingly few who I think of as people who I'd actually like. Too driven, too egotistical, too pompous and too pious. Male or female, they're not from my planet.

keep to the Fen Causeway

by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Sat Dec 12th, 2009 at 01:20:46 PM EST
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Women and men will have different life experiences because women get preggers and men don't.  Our brains are wired slightly different because of that.  

Please note: SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT DOES NOT MEAN "BETTER!!!!"

Just different.  

It does mean you'll find more Social Dominates among men.  Meaning, men are more likely to want, work, and scheme to rise to a position of power .... and then keep it.  ;-)

by ATinNM on Sat Dec 12th, 2009 at 08:01:39 PM EST
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Did I say women are better?  I said we need as wide a diversity of people as possible in power. First step to that is more women.

Men are more likely to be able to network in order to help each other rise to the top - golf clubs, Men's clubs etc, that they can be a part of frequently because they don't traditionally have the burden of childcare. Women have fewer career related networking opportunities.

More men do want to spend time with families though and they'll be at a disadvantage too if they do, so the whole culture needs changing.

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Sun Dec 13th, 2009 at 04:51:44 AM EST
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No you didn't.  The shouting wasn't directed at you.

It was an attempt to avoid a discussion sub-thread.  Experience has taught me anytime I mention female/male brain differences the chances of a comment talking about which is better approaches 100%

by ATinNM on Sun Dec 13th, 2009 at 03:22:51 PM EST
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Ah! Because I thought we didn't usually clash on these topics so it seemed strange that you might shout in my direction.

I suspect if ValentinD or Lily were active right now then a biiig sub-thread would have materialised!

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by In Wales (inwales aaat eurotrib.com) on Mon Dec 14th, 2009 at 04:18:23 PM EST
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by afew (afew(a in a circle)eurotrib_dot_com) on Mon Dec 14th, 2009 at 04:46:29 PM EST
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