Your call to focus on the mission and not on ourselves is, of course the right one. Too often egos get in the way. We are not what is ultimately important here, but the vision of a better society we are seeking to create. Yes of course a blog can be just a place to relax and blow off steam. But what has distinguished ET is that it is also a place where people have congregated who have made great sacrifices in pursuit of their convictions.
Arguments among true believers can be a fraught business. Their very being and self definition can be caught up in the concepts they have so painfully etched from their personal experience. But the trick is to keep the focus on the larger picture, on the vision we all share. We have so much more that unites us that what divides us that it would seem, to me, to be the height of self indulgence to allow those relatively minor divisions destroy this project which has achieved so much, and could yet achieve so much more.
We need to get beyond the who's right and who's wrong paradigm. I have never known blame games to be productive in personal relationships even if an analysis, with hindsight, and at a safe distance, can sometimes reveal some lessons which can be applied in future to mutual advantage by all concerned. The past cannot be undone in any case. I wouldn't even attempt such an analysis now while feelings are raw.
So perhaps a diary focusing on what we have in common; on the rules (which I think we in any case all subscribe to) but which we need to move forward; On the roles and processes which can make all that happen much easier would be productive. Right now I think it is better for time to be a (part) healer and for people to have time to re-think how they would like to see ET develop and the roles they might or might not want to play in that process. Jerome entitled his Diary beyond ET so perhaps he is ahead of us in that process in any case.
But my big point is: it can't be just about us. It has to be about the bigger picture of the changes we all see being needed in our economies, societies and polities. ET has to become bigger than any of us. If we can't rise to that challenge collectively, then we don't have a collective future and are better of seeking progress elsewhere. I agree with you that ET represents a unique opportunity and a unique challenge. If I am perceived as an obstacle I am more than happy to make way. Certainly it can't be about individual members. It has to be about what is best for the collective enterprise, or not at all. notes from no w here
People are taking sides and drawing lines in the sand and a schism may be appearing within the community which may never be healed.
I think people stopped - for a while, temporarily, and in specific instances - seeing the other posters here as people and started treating them as personifications of arguments and beliefs. Usually ones they really really really didn't like much.
All of the mad threads seemed to have this in common. Instead of specific posters we suddenly 'That person who represents this evil thing, and therefore...'
You can't do much once that starts happening. Anything that's said becomes inflammatory, not because it is, but because it starts being weighted down with associations which go beyond what people are really thinking, saying and meaning.
But I also think people here are aware enough to fall into that hole much less often than is usual, and also aware enough to climb out of it.
We're all doing what we're doing in the real world, with varying degrees of success and failure, but we do very much seem to agree on human values, if not necessarily on philosophies, world views, or on means and ends.
For me that agreement is the most important thing. I think it's what makes ET what it is, and it's why such a relatively diverse group usually gets on as well as it does.
Reification (Marxism) (German: Verdinglichung), the consideration of an abstraction or an object as if it had living existence and abilities; at the same time it implies the thingification of social relations
I.e. where people become mere carriers of the ideas they espouse and are hated/loved/despised because of their ideas. Thus conservatives, eurosceptics etc. are nasty, bad, selfish, delusionary people because their ideas are perceived to be wrong. You don't really need to know the people at all. Merely knowing that they are e.g. "socialists" is enough to condemn them. People are no more than the ideas they espouse and can be reduced to a one dimensional ideological position. notes from no w here
In I and Thou, Buber introduced his thesis on human existence. Inspired partly by Feuerbach's concept of ego in The Essence of Christianity and Kierkegaard's "Single One", Buber worked upon the premise of existence as encounter. He explained this philosophy using the word pairs of Ich-Du and Ich-Es to categorize the modes of consciousness, interaction, and being through which an individual engages with other individuals, inanimate objects, and all reality in general. Philosophically, these word pairs express complex ideas about modes of being - particularly how a person exists and actualizes that existence (see existentialism). As Buber argues in I and Thou, a person is at all times engaged with the world in one of these modes. The generic motif Buber employs to describe the dual modes of being is one of dialogue (Ich-Du) and monologue (Ich-Es). The concept of communication, particularly language-oriented communication, is used both in describing dialogue/monologue through metaphors and expressing the interpersonal nature of human existence. Ich-Du Ich-Du ("I-Thou" or "I-You") is a relationship that stresses the mutual, holistic existence of two beings. It is a concrete encounter, because these beings meet one another in their authentic existence, without any qualification or objectification of one another. Even imagination and ideas do not play a role in this relation. In an I-Thou encounter, infinity and universality are made actual (rather than being merely concepts). Buber stressed that an Ich-Du relationship lacks any composition (e.g. structure) and communicates no content (e.g. information). Despite the fact that Ich-Du cannot be proven to happen as an event (e.g. it cannot be measured), Buber stressed that it is real and perceivable. A variety of examples are used to illustrate Ich-Du relationships in daily life - two lovers, an observer and a cat, the author and a tree, and two strangers on a train. Common English words used to describe the Ich-Du relationship include encounter, meeting, dialogue, mutuality, and exchange. [...] Ich-Es The Ich-Es ("I-It") relationship is nearly the opposite of Ich-Du. Whereas in Ich-Du the two beings encounter one another, in an Ich-Es relationship the beings do not actually meet. Instead, the "I" confronts and qualifies an idea, or conceptualization, of the being in its presence and treats that being as an object. All such objects are considered merely mental representations, created and sustained by the individual mind. This is based partly on Kant's theory of phenomenon, in that these objects reside in the cognitive agent's mind, existing only as thoughts. Therefore, the Ich-Es relationship is in fact a relationship with oneself; it is not a dialogue, but a monologue. In the Ich-Es relationship, an individual treats other things, people, etc., as objects to be used and experienced. Essentially, this form of objectivity relates to the world in terms of the self - how an object can serve the individual's interest. Buber argued that human life consists of an oscillation between Ich-Du and Ich-Es, and that in fact Ich-Du experiences are rather few and far between. In diagnosing the various perceived ills of modernity (e.g. isolation, dehumanization, etc.), Buber believed that the expansion of a purely analytic, material view of existence was at heart an advocation of Ich-Es relations - even between human beings. Buber argued that this paradigm devalued not only existents, but the meaning of all existence.
The generic motif Buber employs to describe the dual modes of being is one of dialogue (Ich-Du) and monologue (Ich-Es). The concept of communication, particularly language-oriented communication, is used both in describing dialogue/monologue through metaphors and expressing the interpersonal nature of human existence.
Ich-Du
Ich-Du ("I-Thou" or "I-You") is a relationship that stresses the mutual, holistic existence of two beings. It is a concrete encounter, because these beings meet one another in their authentic existence, without any qualification or objectification of one another. Even imagination and ideas do not play a role in this relation. In an I-Thou encounter, infinity and universality are made actual (rather than being merely concepts).
Buber stressed that an Ich-Du relationship lacks any composition (e.g. structure) and communicates no content (e.g. information). Despite the fact that Ich-Du cannot be proven to happen as an event (e.g. it cannot be measured), Buber stressed that it is real and perceivable. A variety of examples are used to illustrate Ich-Du relationships in daily life - two lovers, an observer and a cat, the author and a tree, and two strangers on a train. Common English words used to describe the Ich-Du relationship include encounter, meeting, dialogue, mutuality, and exchange.
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Ich-Es
The Ich-Es ("I-It") relationship is nearly the opposite of Ich-Du. Whereas in Ich-Du the two beings encounter one another, in an Ich-Es relationship the beings do not actually meet. Instead, the "I" confronts and qualifies an idea, or conceptualization, of the being in its presence and treats that being as an object. All such objects are considered merely mental representations, created and sustained by the individual mind. This is based partly on Kant's theory of phenomenon, in that these objects reside in the cognitive agent's mind, existing only as thoughts. Therefore, the Ich-Es relationship is in fact a relationship with oneself; it is not a dialogue, but a monologue.
In the Ich-Es relationship, an individual treats other things, people, etc., as objects to be used and experienced. Essentially, this form of objectivity relates to the world in terms of the self - how an object can serve the individual's interest.
Buber argued that human life consists of an oscillation between Ich-Du and Ich-Es, and that in fact Ich-Du experiences are rather few and far between. In diagnosing the various perceived ills of modernity (e.g. isolation, dehumanization, etc.), Buber believed that the expansion of a purely analytic, material view of existence was at heart an advocation of Ich-Es relations - even between human beings. Buber argued that this paradigm devalued not only existents, but the meaning of all existence.
Empathy- or feeling that the other is not to be categorized into a rigid inductive schema but is simply expressing herself in a certain way at a given moment- is difficult in the real world, all the more so in the surrogate world of internet.
This is spot on, from what I can glean.
Moreover, people have not just been treated as personifications of arguments and beliefs, but somewhat confined to roles. X is the new age person, X is the anarchist, X is the intolerant atheist, X is the nationalist, X is the Atlanticist, X is the troublemaker, X is the clown, X is the curmudgeon, X is the diva... It's probably quite natural and not meant to be malicious. But this is real life, not a novel or play, and no one consistently represents one idea or fills one role. Especially here at ET where people are constantly having their horizons expanded and being asked to prove the credibility of their assertions and to step out of their comfort zones.
Many of the recent tiffs make no sense to many of us; the responses seems so unnecessarily disproportionate or overly sensitive and feel distracting. Perhaps, rather than taking comments in their immediate and logical context, we may be interpreting them according to our preconceived ideas about the person(s) making them or our expectations of their ulterior motivations.
This is a pet peeve of mine because 1) fault is just as likely to lie with the person's preconceived ideas as with the person whose comments are being judged, 2) no one acts consistently over time: our personal mood, new information, or comfort with our situation can determine our motives just as much as any ideology or personality trait and 3) even if the preconceived ideas are correct, the comments may still have a good point, which will be missed because our focus was elsewhere, looking for the fault.
And if your are looking for something, you might think you've found it when it isn't even there. It's called a bias. We notice it when journalists write about France or Russia and it drives us berserk. We notice it when fundamentalists explain events which have quite logical causes as conspiracies or divine plans and it makes us exasperated. But ... are we willing to acknowledge that we too sometimes fall into this intellectual laziness? I mean, we're a pretty freaking intelligent group here. We'll admit to all kinds of vices and lurid activities and shortcomings. But not bias. Not intellectual shortcuts! That's ET's version of the Holy Grail. Which may be why we seem to be dancing around a problem while not solving it or communicating past each other. Maybe that's the elephant in the room. Even we are capable of bias - even against one another. Even we are susceptible to allowing our emotions and agendas trump our critical reasoning abilities. Even we might invent a narrative about ET to counter the annoying phenomenon of stuff not always making sense in a way that conforms to our worldview. Can it be possible? And can we graciously acknowledge its possibility without taking a sever hit to our pride?
Look, we might be exceptional, but we are not THAT exceptional. Of course we do these things. This is a blog, a medium that hardly encourages reflection and patience and with-holding of judgement! We are not robots. We are not omniscient. We are humans with infinite demands on our lives. We are not Dostoevsky characters who are good ideas or bad ideas walking about on 2 legs. And let me remind you, that those Dostoevsky characters were like masters of the flame war.
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OMG maybe this IS a Dostoevsky novel!!! Think about it. You have the believers and the non-believers. The hedonists and the stoics. The progressive reformers and the commie anarchists. The nobility and the riff-raff. The ruined women and the unrequited love. The hysterics and the philosophical debates. The plots, the plans, the people who show up outta nowhere and ruffle things up. The manifestos. No murders so far. But how many of us belong to that "people with names no one can spell" fb group? And wasn't Twank just suggesting a fancy-dress ball? Uh huh...
Well, either this 1) is a Dostoevsky novel, which means we're all not real people and someone is going to get killed and there's nothing any of us can do about it or 2) is not a Dostoevsky novel, which means we're each more than characters who personify an idea or archetype and so it would behoove us to keep that in mind was we do this blogging thing. And also no one has to get killed.
Which is good. Come, my friends, 'Tis not too late to seek a newer world.
Your personal combination of qualities/talents and you/poemless don't need a defense. Our knowledge has surpassed our wisdom. -Charu Saxena.
<counting until ceebs gets stuck in> You can't be me, I'm taken
:D "Talking nonsense is the sole privilege mankind possesses over the other organisms." -Dostoevsky
poemless:
X is the new age person, X is the anarchist, X is the intolerant atheist, X is the nationalist, X is the Atlanticist, X is the troublemaker, X is the clown, X is the curmudgeon, X is the diva...
Why do you bad-mouth X? Sure it is true that X has not made much noice since becoming one of the early members, but that does not (in my book (not Dostoevsky)) make it ok to scapegoat. Just because someone is not around all the time (or ever writes a comment) does not constitute a licens for using that person as an all-encompassing representation.
X for president! A vote for PES is a vote for EPP! A vote for EPP is a vote for PES! Support the coalition, vote EPP-PES in 2009!
And you thought no one had to be killed... Bah! A vote for PES is a vote for EPP! A vote for EPP is a vote for PES! Support the coalition, vote EPP-PES in 2009!
X for president!
He should win as well, everyone votes X in the UK. "Any economic unit can emit money. The serious problem is to get it accepted" Hyman Minsky
As to ET "having to be bigger than any of us", just like your recent pretty specific accusations of authoritarianism, let me say that this is also rather unfortunate.
Have you been forbidden from taking any initiative in the name of ET? Have you tried to get a "collective entreprise" started on any issue? People cannot complain (more or less openly) about this blog being too much about me and then wait for me to get anything done. In the long run, we're all dead. John Maynard Keynes
I did appeal to you to retract a personalised comment you directed at another member, but as that is an emotive issue which has nearly torn this community apart I think it is better for us to discuss that matter privately by email if you wish. If you felt that any comment I made was unfair or hurtful, I apologise. I was trying to assist in resolving a dispute which had arisen between others, not to make matters worse. You had previously challenged me and others not to leave all the moderation to front pagers. Obviously I didn't succeed.
Yes I have tried to get some collective enterprises on ET going - e.g. a wind turbine; LTEs to Irish papers on Lisbon by Europeans who don't want Libertas/Sinn Fein to speak/act on their behalf when it comes to any claimed democratic deficit in the EU; EU grant application for funding ET 2.0 multilingual capabilities - and have been disappointed but not surprised when they didn't get anywhere but I didn't blame anyone, least of all you, for that. I think it is worth while exercise to float concrete action proposals sometimes to see if any of them might fly. ET can be a useful sounding board or launching pad for initiatives without them ever necessarily become "official" ET projects. I hope you don't object to that. notes from no w here
The secret of successful collective endeavors is that there has to be a benevolent dictator (ie a not-authoritarian leader) to carry them to fruition. In the long run, we're all dead. John Maynard Keynes
It Can't Be Just About Us! "It Can't Be Just About Us"--Frank Schnittger, ETian Extraordinaire