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Sinatra Song Often Strikes Deadly Chord - NYTimes.com

GENERAL SANTOS, the Philippines -- After a day of barbering, Rodolfo Gregorio went to his neighborhood karaoke bar still smelling of talcum powder. Putting aside his glass of Red Horse Extra Strong beer, he grasped a microphone with a habitué's self-assuredness and briefly stilled the room with the Platters' "My Prayer."

Next, he belted out crowd-pleasers by Tom Jones and Engelbert Humperdinck. But Mr. Gregorio, 63, a witness to countless fistfights and occasional stabbings erupting from disputes over karaoke singing, did not dare choose one beloved classic: Frank Sinatra's version of "My Way."

"I used to like `My Way,' but after all the trouble, I stopped singing it," he said. "You can get killed."

The authorities do not know exactly how many people have been killed warbling "My Way" in karaoke bars over the years in the Philippines, or how many fatal fights it has fueled. But the news media have recorded at least half a dozen victims in the past decade and includes them in a subcategory of crime dubbed the "My Way Killings."

The killings have produced urban legends about the song and left Filipinos groping for answers. Are the killings the natural byproduct of the country's culture of violence, drinking and machismo? Or is there something inherently sinister in the song?



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by dvx (dvx.clt ät gmail dotcom) on Sun Feb 7th, 2010 at 01:42:15 PM EST
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i always felt that song to be quite sinister, even without sin-art-ra singing it....

clever wordplay though, and suitably pompous chord structure.

~"When an inner situation is not made conscious, it appears outside as fate." Karl Jung~

by melo (melometa4(at)gmail.com) on Mon Feb 8th, 2010 at 04:45:26 AM EST
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Well the songwriter was interviewed and said that his favorite version was the Sid Vicious/sex pistols one, as it was the only version that didn't treat it as a pompous epic.

Any idiot can face a crisis - it's day to day living that wears you out.
by ceebs (ceebs (at) eurotrib (dot) com) on Mon Feb 8th, 2010 at 08:55:09 AM EST
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I heard that Sinatra liked it as well, saying it was the only version he'd ever heard that didn't do it His Way.

keep to the Fen Causeway
by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Mon Feb 8th, 2010 at 09:20:30 AM EST
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It was originally by French songwriter Jacques Revaux, with English words (For Me no one wanted to record. '60s pop (and '70s disco) idol Claude François took it on and rewrote the words with the help of Gilles Thibaut, recording it as Comme d'habitude. David Bowie wrote new English lyrics for it (not good) before Paul Anka heard the Claude François version and bought the US rights, writing the Eng-lang version My Way.

Which among them preferred the Sid Vicious cover, I don't know, but I do (prefer it...).

by afew (afew(a in a circle)eurotrib_dot_com) on Mon Feb 8th, 2010 at 10:15:57 AM EST
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I was reading recently somewhere (maybe The Philippines?) that singing karaoke 'My Way' (Sinatra version) had caused a lot of fights, even shootings. In some bars it was banned.

You can't be me, I'm taken
by Sven Triloqvist on Mon Feb 8th, 2010 at 12:23:40 PM EST
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maybe a couple of comments higher on the page? ;P


Any idiot can face a crisis - it's day to day living that wears you out.
by ceebs (ceebs (at) eurotrib (dot) com) on Mon Feb 8th, 2010 at 05:03:58 PM EST
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Yes, that was it ;-)

You can't be me, I'm taken
by Sven Triloqvist on Tue Feb 9th, 2010 at 01:15:01 AM EST
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