Get out - while you can

by Ted Welch
Mon Mar 2nd, 2009 at 07:53:27 PM EST

Leave ET - get out now !


I suppose it's idelness so I really ought to get and do something, anything really other than just sitting on my butt reading blogs. I was supposed to go up to london to see a friend but they cancelled with a bad cold. So.... I'm reading blogs.

Helen

The just part of me tells me to get the hell out of ET while I am still alive, before I end up in a gulag or murdered by someone.

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 It's nice to be able to take a bit of time to ponder a response or to actually engage in the "meat world" instead of staying plugged in to the "e-world".

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 Relax Jerome, I don't mean leave forever :-)


 There have been calls to participate more and I'm sure more of us should. But maybe SOME of us do use Eurotrib as a sort of comfortable chair, cf.  Matisse's description of his Art:

It is my dream to create an art which is filled with balance, purity and calmness, freed from a subject matter that is disconcerting or too attention-seeking. In my paintings, I wish to create a spiritual remedy, similar to a comfortable armchair which provides rest from physical expectation [exertion?]for the spiritually working, the businessman as well as the artist.

http://www.artquotes.net/masters/matisse_quotes.htm

 I'm not sure providing comfortable armchairs for businessmen has much appeal these days, but anyway, comfortable chairs can kill - it said so in Salon:

plastination


Fran:

Re: This, That, and the Other (4.00 / 2) BBC NEWS | Health

 Clean living way to beat cancer

Over 40% of breast and bowel cancer cases in rich countries are preventable through diet, physical activity and weight control alone, experts say.

Simple measures like cycling to work ... can make all the difference for these and many other cancers, they say.

It's so easy to settle in for the evening, tune in to ET and drop out of the world and pour scorn on politicians, journalists, and others probably still out there in that uncomfortable place - the real world. Well, many of them need scorn poured on them, and it's important that we go on doing all the other things we do in ET - but, for some of us, perhaps there's a healthier balance to be struck.

I'm as lazy as anyone, and, after a break while recovering from an operation, I got back into the old routine - the FP, the OT and the diaries. But then I decided to make more of an effort to spend less time on my arse in the warm and to get out more - even in January ! Anyway, it could prolong my life, which illness had painfully reminded me was limited, as well as occasionally enhancing it.

So often in Sudbury (Wembley) I didn't bother to go out as central London was a two-hour return journey and often the weather was bad. Also it costs money just for the fare and I take Helen's point the other night about not being able to afford even a modest night out while job-seeking. This will also not apply to those who have a rich social and professional life involving some physical activity and who like a few hours relaxation on Eurotrib. It is more a public reminder to myself - but if anyone else is spending too much time in front of a computer this might help - and anyway, there are photos.

In Nice the weather's usually much better and things are closer. But on 8th Jan. it was cold and I thought twice about going to a jazz session at a café near the port. Then I decided that I'd moved here partly to get out more and to things like this. I almost regretted it once outside the front door as it was raining - but it was very light and the walk to the tram is a few minutes. A tram came very soon and in a few more minutes I was at Place Garibaldi, the rain had already stopped and I had the bonus of these xmas lights with Garibaldi looking on (hand-held, the G10's image stabilization performed well):

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Then it was another short walk down through the Port area, which I was very familiar with as we'd lived here for our first months in Nice. But, though I thought I'd explored the area fairly thoroughly, I had somehow missed the Café Borghese, in Rue Fodere, just round the corner from our flat. That was a pity, as the food being served looked good and there was a nice relaxed atmosphere; it is a real French local with no tourists (that night). I also liked the decor, a bit bohemian, with an ornate fireplace, but walls in varied shades of ochre. It was the birthday of the woman on the left:

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Later the band played "Happy birthday":

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Fortunately they don't promote their events very much so I was able to find a space at the bar near the band. This was by the till and, just as I was about to take a photo of the cupid lamp for M, the waitress leaned into the frame - the kind of luck photographers often depend on.

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But generally the light was too low for available light shots, in fact as I came in the manager was trying to get the modern chandelier to move round so that a light would shine on the band, but with no luck.

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But the band made up for the semi-gloom and the cold outside with a very lively performance.  The atmosphere certainly wasn't reverential, but was relaxed rather than than rudely noisy (as happened at their subseqent session in Cave Bianchi - see below).

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 I really liked the shadow of the young guy with trumpet, but flash would kill it, so for the first time I used the ASA dial to shift it up to 400, despite the complaints from some reviewers of the Canon G10's noise at this setting, but I'm quite happy with the result. It's another example of luck, in this case overcoming an error (by this time I'd sampled a range of the drinks they had on offer, including a single malt and some house spirit). While I liked the shadow he cast, I really wanted the guy to be in focus, but forgot about the centre-weighting of the auto-focus while framing. But luckily the keyboard player looked over at the trumpeter, his eyes are fairly sharp, and it made the shot.

Unfortunately the route to the toilets was through the band, but luckily the place wasn't too busy and people were generally careful to squeeze through in a quiet moment.

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It was a very good night and I was glad I'd made the small effort.

I was relieved that it wasn't crowded, which is a regular problem at one of the few other jazz places in Nice, Caves Romagnon, where you just can't get in the door after about 8.30 and are condemned to stand outside, if you choose to stay, being gassed by all the smokers.

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But if you do squeeze in (or go early), it's 5 euros for a drink, which can last for the night, or you get it free if you give the patron a few prints.

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At the end I asked the barman at Borghese when their next jazz night was. He didn't know and suggested I asked someone in the band. When I did so, a saxaphonist who seems to be the leader, suggested I ask the staff ! But he added that they would be performing at a place which would have a wine-tasting too on the 24th. What luck, it is a place we'd been to before and liked, and we are on the email list. In fact we were there  recently for a vernissage - some boringly similar abstracts:

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"Abstract Art: A product of the untalented, sold by the unprincipled to the utterly bewildered."

Albert Camus

We were greeted by the owner, who pointed out that he'd blocked up a hole giving onto a storeroom which had caused a draught last time we were there and even I had had to put my overcoat back on.

This time we were early:

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seizing the night again in a nice warm cave with civilised introductions to a variety of wines (though 30 secs rather than 3 minutes per wine would suit me :-) ).

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cave-bianchi-red-wine-1062

Unfortunately a large group came in rather late and sat at a table close to us. They had already been drinking, one woman was a bit unsteady, and were rather noisy. But the band played on and the singer was good (one of the abstracts is in the background):

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I gave some prints from the Café Borghese session to the band leader and later he came back to say he was impressed, which was nice.

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Recently I went for a drink in the old town and ended up in a little bar in a square.  There the owner, looking like the owner of a French bar should, said: "We like the English here". I think few of our football fans get to Nice very often. He introduced me to another English guy. At first I thought he was quite  successful, a yacht captain, who'd had a very lucrative contract in the Middle East, overseeing the refurbishment of a luxury yacht, while sampling the pleasures which the authorities turned a blind eye to as long as it was confined to expat hotels. But as the conversation continued he revealed that after the contract had ended he'd stayed on, expecting to find more work fairly easily. But it didn't happen, his money ran out and wasn't having any better luck in Nice and was now having to think twice about buying a drink, so I bought him a couple. The crisis was very immediate.

Another night I dragged a rather reluctant M to the bar - it's not at all her style. But within minutes she was having a deep conversation with the owner about Albert Camus (see the photos behind the patron) - these French - they are SO intellectual :-)

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M: "L'existentialisme est un humanisme"

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Patron: "Mais, madame, c'est absurde!"

Another evening, after a meal in the old town, I was walking back when I came across the Carnaval parade, just as the King and Queen entered Place Massena - couldn't have timed it better:

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"Fortune favours the prepared mind" (Pasteur) - and favours the person prepared to make the effort just to get out there and let things happen. Then you can return and write a diary about the "meat world", as with the resulting diary, other photos of the darker side of Carnaval, if you missed them, at:

http://www.eurotrib.com/?op=displaystory;sid=2009/2/24/181653/192

One can feel quite virtuous, reading and commenting in such a worthwhile forum as Eurotrib, but, as Nietzsche said: "When virtue has slept, she will get up more refreshed." Human, All Too Human, section 83.

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Of course going to jazz sessions and chatting about the absurd in bars isn't THAT active. I've made contact with some of my ex-students on Facebook recently. One of them announced that he'd just been for a 16 mile trail run in the Cotswolds - AND was going to do an hour's "spinning" (nothing to do with Dervishes) that evening!  I need to get to bed :-)

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience
by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Mon Mar 2nd, 2009 at 08:20:08 PM EST
great excuse for another 'louche life' in Nice diary, huh Ted?

The HomeNet Project

Even though interpersonal communication is the most important application of the Internet for most people, our research has shown that extensive use of the Internet may have negative social consequences.

  • Greater use of the Internet is associated with declines in the size of participants' social networks, declines in communication within the family and, for teenagers, declines in social support.
  • Greater use of the Internet is associated with increases in loneliness and symptoms of depression. 
  • These declines are especially strong during the first years online, but may drop or even reverse with time or as the services available on the Internet improve. 

Services will improve when i can surf the web with the browser in my head!

"Two wrongs don't make a right, but three lefts do." Jim Hightower

by melo (melometa4(at)gmail.com) on Mon Mar 2nd, 2009 at 08:59:23 PM EST
[ Parent ]

The truly louche don't need excuses :-)

Thanks for the research.

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience

by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 05:11:17 AM EST
[ Parent ]
Greater use of the Internet is associated with increases in loneliness and symptoms of depression.

No way to win, eh? Stay on line one can become depressed. Go outside, there's a real "depression" coming.

Hey, Grandma Moses started late!

by LEP (rafifoon@yahoo.com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 05:47:09 AM EST
[ Parent ]
Los internautas son más activos, tienen más amigos y menos depresiones · ELPAÍS.comInternet users are more active, have more friends and fewer depressions - ElPais.com
El sociólogo Manuel Castells -codirector del estudio junto a la rectora de la UOC, Imma Tubella- asegura que el proyecto "ha verificado lo que ya se sabía, que las nuevas tecnologías no encierran a la gente en casa sino que activan la sociabilidad". Según Castells, considerar que el uso de Internet "aísla y enajena" es una "patraña sin ninguna base científica".Sociologist Manuel Castells - codirectod of the study together with the Rector of the Catalan Open Univestity, Imma Tubella - claims that the project "has verified what was already known, that the new [information] technologies don't lock people at home but rather they activate sociability". According to Castells, the opinion that Internet use "isolates and alienates" is a "lie with no scientific basis".

Wikipedia: Manuel Castells
According to the Social Sciences Citation Index's survey of research from 2000 to 2006, Castells was ranked as the fifth most cited social sciences scholar and the foremost cited communications scholar in the world.[2][3]


Most economists teach a theoretical framework that has been shown to be fundamentally useless. -- James K. Galbraith
by Migeru (migeru at eurotrib dot com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 05:55:52 AM EST
[ Parent ]
So that's why I'm so happy :-))

Hey, Grandma Moses started late!
by LEP (rafifoon@yahoo.com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 05:59:40 AM EST
[ Parent ]
ah but he's maybe the most cited, because internet users are too depressed to look anywhere else.

If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the precipitate.
by ceebs (ceebs (at) eurotrib (dot) com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 06:30:38 AM EST
[ Parent ]
For pro and con see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_addiction_disorder

...
Prevalence of Internet overuse

One researcher estimates that up to nine million Americans could be labeled as pathological computer users.[21]

British psychiatrists, reporting last year in the journal Advances in Psychiatric Treatment, say a "significant minority" - some estimate between five and 10 percent of online users -- are addicted to the Internet, and that while early research suggests most are highly educated, highly introverted males,[no comment :-)] more recent studies suggest the bulk of the problem is occurring among middle-aged women on home computers.[22]

... Prevention and correction

In many cases, though not all, Internet overuse corrects itself. "It was Professor Kiesler who called Internet addiction a fad illness. In her view, she said, television addiction is worse. She added that she was completing a study of heavy Internet users, which showed the majority had sharply reduced their time on the computer over the course of a year, indicating that even problematic use was self-corrective."[15]

Strategies include content-control software, counseling, cognitive behavioural therapy and twelve-step programs

Or maybe a 10,000 steps programme:


10,000 STEPS A DAY

Maybe you have heard the recent guidelines about walking 10,000 steps per day. How far is 10,000 steps anyway? The average person's stride length is approximately 2.5 feet long. That means it takes just over 2,000 steps to walk one mile, and 10,000 steps is close to 5 miles.

A sedentary person may only average 1,000 to 3,000 steps a day. For these people adding steps has many health benefits. I have outlined the basic 10,000 steps program, but also added a commentary below.

http://www.thewalkingsite.com/10000steps.html

I'm outta here :-)

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience

by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 07:33:49 AM EST
[ Parent ]
up to nine million Americans could be labeled as pathological computer users.

because they don't want to spend the night in bars watching sports? or there's nowhere near them that plays any music that they like? or there's just no social set-up that caters for someone of their beliefs in the local area?

It smacks to me of someone saying see those people over there who aren't consuming the mass media in the way that you are, the ones who read books or talk about politics, they've not got something more, they're ill, no need to worry yourself about it.

If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the precipitate.

by ceebs (ceebs (at) eurotrib (dot) com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 10:31:55 AM EST
[ Parent ]
 Of course it can be just a preference and wise people like us keep a good balance with other things :-)

 Those saying there IS a problem - with some people (most of whom have existing problems) - don't just deplore their preference. It's a bit more than that:


In a 2008 editorial published in the American Journal of Psychiatry, Jerald J. Block, M.D. argues that Internet addiction should be included as a disorder in the DSM-V. He notes that symptoms of IA mirror other compulsive/impulsive disorders, including: 1.) excessive use (often associated with a loss of sense of time); 2.) withdrawal symptoms when access is denied; 3.) increasing tolerance (including growing needs for exposure to obtain the same effects); and, 4.) negative repercussions (including social isolation). He further observed that diagnosis was complicated because 86% of study subjects showing IA symptoms also exhibited other diagnosable mental health disorders.[16]

ibid



Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience
by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 11:42:44 AM EST
[ Parent ]
1.) excessive use (often associated with a loss of sense of time);

Thank god for the little clock in the corner, (Do Apples have them? and could there be a link?) ;-)

2.) withdrawal symptoms when access is denied;

Ditto mobile phone internet

3.) increasing tolerance (including growing needs for exposure to obtain the same effects);

People on the internet have been getting MORE tolerant???

4.) negative repercussions (including social isolation).

and what others?

diagnosis was complicated because 86% of study subjects showing IA symptoms also exhibited other diagnosable mental health disorders.

Hmmm so who's the sane one on the site?

If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the precipitate.

by ceebs (ceebs (at) eurotrib (dot) com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 11:56:51 AM EST
[ Parent ]
ceebs:
People on the internet have been getting MORE tolerant???

lol! not that kind of tolerance! they mean you need ever higher doses to 'get off'.

"Two wrongs don't make a right, but three lefts do." Jim Hightower

by melo (melometa4(at)gmail.com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 02:14:03 PM EST
[ Parent ]
I know, i know, intentional misunderstanding for the sake of humour.

If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the precipitate.
by ceebs (ceebs (at) eurotrib (dot) com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 02:26:08 PM EST
[ Parent ]
Play safe and add a :-) - in the absence of "meat world" cues like tone of voice and facial expression.

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience
by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 03:02:59 PM EST
[ Parent ]
increasing tolerance (including growing needs for exposure to obtain the same effects);

What exactly are these effects?

by gk (g k quattro due due sette "at" gmail.com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 02:28:36 PM EST
[ Parent ]
Whatever satisfactions/pleasures the thing you're addicted to gives you.

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience
by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 03:04:12 PM EST
[ Parent ]
Excellent diary, thanks. I also need to be reminded to get out...

Most economists teach a theoretical framework that has been shown to be fundamentally useless. -- James K. Galbraith
by Migeru (migeru at eurotrib dot com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 05:01:39 AM EST
Ted. There's a free program out there called "Neat Image" which cleans up nicely noise on a photo. Thus you can set the ISO at 1200 or 1600 for low light shots and clean up the noise with "Neat Image" eg.,

This was taken with my cheap Canon Elph.

Hey, Grandma Moses started late!

by LEP (rafifoon@yahoo.com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 05:58:17 AM EST
Thanks for the tip, but the noise filter in Photoshop Elements seems to be pretty good. I should have added that I used that.  

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience
by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 11:33:21 AM EST
[ Parent ]
There used to be a TV programme called "Do something else" which was about all the other sorts of things you cold be doing instead of watching telly.

I don't come here as a substitute for social activity, this is my social activity. I have never met a bunch of people i get on with in real life. Or more realistically, who can tolerate me, like sean Penn I'm hard work. At any point in my life I've always counted acquaintances on the fingers of my hand and, right now, I only need my thumbs.

So coming here and meeting a group of people who are more or less in the same ballpark as me politically and philosophically, who are bright funny and articulate. This is my fun, it's my preferred thing. If there were no ET I wouldn't just aimlessly blog elsewhere, cos I've never found anywhere else I want to blog.

Yes, it'd be nice to have friends locally, people I can eat with, drink with, go to theatre/cinema/stoning a banker with. But reality has taught me that's not gonna happen ... ever. And going places on your own is dull, really dull. It's a two-dimensioned experience, there's nobody to talk to about it, to relive it, to see their perspective.

So, this is my social life.

keep to the Fen Causeway

by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 10:19:34 AM EST
And we ETers do meet in the meat-world.

Most economists teach a theoretical framework that has been shown to be fundamentally useless. -- James K. Galbraith
by Migeru (migeru at eurotrib dot com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 10:21:46 AM EST
[ Parent ]
I know, it's the most fun.

keep to the Fen Causeway
by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 10:51:37 AM EST
[ Parent ]
Yes, and I enjoyed the one I went to in Paris very much - but I wouldn't want them to constitute my "meat-world" social life - they're not exactly frequent are they, :-)

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience
by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 11:30:59 AM EST
[ Parent ]
Well I don't think you're hard work in the RW! We were just getting started on my beer education ;-)

You can't be me, I'm taken
by Sven Triloqvist on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 10:29:49 AM EST
[ Parent ]
We can continue any time you're back in Blighty

keep to the Fen Causeway
by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 10:52:24 AM EST
[ Parent ]
Helen:

Yes, it'd be nice to have friends locally, people I can eat with, drink with, go to theatre/cinema/stoning a banker with. But reality has taught me that's not gonna happen ... ever.

Now I was at pains to say this may only apply to SOME people and was mainly a reminder to myself, but might be of use to some others - and Mig said yes, he needs to get out more.

When I went out locally or to central London, sometimes "nothing" would happen; but I got a bit of air, some exercise and increased the chances of something happening.

Once I went to a pub philosophy meeting in a pub off Regent street, for the cost of a pint, and it was an interesting discussion. But on the way there, in the few hundred yards from Piccadilly tube I met an ex-student - and on the way back met another ! Neither one dodged across the street as I approached I'm happy to say :-)

Once, when I forced myself into the centre again, I got out of the tube and into a pub just 5 minutes before the end of "happy hour" - a nice start. Walked round the corner and saw that a film I had been wanting to see was about to start - better still ! After that I went to a pub, the French House I think, and got talking to a guy who did aerial photography and was interestingly challenging in conversation. He was going on to some club so I tried that, useful late-night drinking place to know. Not a bad night at all.

Another time I had emailed Robert Elms on LBC about Jimmy's, and old Greek restaurant in Frith Street - which one of my art teachers, quite a bohemian, had taken me to with some of his friends years ago. That evening I was drinking in Soho and decided to revisit it - and at the next table met the woman who became my partner ! Mind you that didn't last and just delayed my departure to France for a bout two years - but still ... :-)


 And going places on your own is dull, really dull. It's a two-dimensioned experience, there's nobody to talk to about it, to relive it, to see their perspective.

There you go, generalising again - YOU may find it dull, and 2-D, but I, for example, quite like the freedom to go where I please, leave when I like, etc. I also just like watching people and the little mini-dramas that go on all the time. Thus in the bar in Nice I referred to, a Spanish woman was standing at the bar next to me, clearly a bit drunk and some guy disentangled himself from her arms and left. She moved to the other side of me and started talking to the barman, but her gestures were getting more and more expansive, so I moved away and the patron asked her to take care. I wondered how this would develop.

Next she cottoned on to the yacht captain, who spoke quite good Spanish (it seemed) and I later learned he had a place in Spain, but couldn't live in it as there was no work there. After a while he evaded her attentions and started talking to me. Meanwhile she got into an argument with the patron's son and both he and the patron asked her to leave. Perhaps she went home and said: "It's never gonna happen" - but at least that night you couldn't say she hadn't tried - maybe two or three drinks less and the evening might have developed differently for her. Or maybe she went elsewhere and had a much better time.

And you can always come back and talk about it here :-)

 "So, this is my social life."

If you're happy, fine.

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience

by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 11:27:15 AM EST
[ Parent ]
I do need to get out more, but on the other hand ET has greatly expanded my social circle. So, nothing lost there.

Most economists teach a theoretical framework that has been shown to be fundamentally useless. -- James K. Galbraith
by Migeru (migeru at eurotrib dot com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 11:31:39 AM EST
[ Parent ]
It's clearly not either-or - both-and ...   is better.

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience
by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Tue Mar 3rd, 2009 at 11:35:46 AM EST
[ Parent ]
I've only met you the once, but you seemed easy to get along with. You had a handle on good pubs, and the information on Greene King has come in handy in several conversations with publicans. You sell yourself short.
by northsylvania on Wed Mar 4th, 2009 at 08:43:13 AM EST
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Well I can assure you that I am not beating potential freinds away with sticks. People just don't warm to me. I'm always the one who picks up the phone, never the one who is phoned. And eventaully the poeple I know walk away and find someone more interesting to hang out with.

I don't put mself down just to elicit sympathy, I simply report that I don't have more than a couple of offline aquaintances and find it hard to make conversation/friends.

keep to the Fen Causeway

by Helen (lareinagal at yahoo dot co dot uk) on Wed Mar 4th, 2009 at 11:49:47 AM EST
[ Parent ]
For those who don't read the OT (and for those who do, a couple of other photos):

Well, I got out yesterday afternoon - and finally joined a gym ! It's just a healthy walk away, reasonable charges, no constant rap music (Wembley gym), and almost totally empty at about 3 pm - so I had no excuses not to.

Then walking on down a road I don't often take, I came across "Mangez-moi" and decided to go inside this time:

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Then ruined the fitness programme :-)

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But, as M. would say: "C'est pour le plaisir" - these people with no history of Puritanism ! :-) Yes, afew, I know it's a crumble - one of the few Brit imports here - but a lot of sugar :-)

In the middle of a very built-up area of Nice:

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Experiencing places like this is one of the plaisirs of getting out.

First session at the gym today - took it very easy. Managed most of the machines OK, one seemed VERY challenging, even with light weights engaged. Then a guy said: "C'est a l'envers." Ah, sheepishly I sat down facing the other way - of course! Fortunately there was hardly anyone else about :-) Why didn't I ask about the machines ? They did have diagrams beside them - and I'm a guy :-)

Light rain most of today - so no crumble in the jardin - just un creme in the shopping centre - I might almost have been back in Wembley. Ah well, sun promised for the weekend - when we might get out to the heavy snows - at Valberg - 1 1/2 hour drive away.

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner - that I moved to Nice. Blog - Nice Experience

by Ted Welch (tedwelch-at-mac-dot-com) on Wed Mar 4th, 2009 at 11:02:21 AM EST


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