I fail to see your point: thinking that helping out non-signatories to the NPT who have proven that they are diverting from their civilian to there military programme with nuclear technology while sabre-rattling over the possibility that a signatory to the NPT might want nukes is a bit bizarre is hardly equivalent to wanting Iran to have nuclear weapons. No one here wants that. I would suggest that few here want any nuclear weapons lying around. Sounds to me as if your internalising "you're with us or against us" a bit too much.

Does it bother you that the US has a first-use and tactical use doctrine for nuclear weapons?