I'll have to ask my gay daughter her thoughts on this, the Womyn's get-together in Michigan, I mean, but I know she has no problem with the restroom situation.  She and I have both been to GLBT clubs where everyone just goes to the same bathrooms with the usual type stalls, no problems.

Though I haven't met you, I've known since early on that you are transgendered, but I've never thought of you as anything but a woman, maybe since your name is Helen, and your photos looked like a woman, too.  And it makes me feel good when people are GLAD to be women.

Karen in Austin

'tis strange I should be old and neither wise nor valiant. From "The Maid's Tragedy" by Beaumont & Fletcher