I don't much care what word is used to describe it, and I also don't care who you find attractive or not.  Her appearance has no relevance to her ability to do the job, or to why she was selected for it.  Aside from being fundamentally sexist, "jokes" about how powerful or influential women "aren't feminine" are as tired and unimaginative as they get.  Yawn.  Great sense of humor you've got there, pal.