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As usual you miss the point of what human rights are: they can't be divided into trivial and not trivial.

Unless they're atheist rights, in which case they're 'sectarian' - and therefore not actually rights, but privileges.

Oh - and for context, I'm still not understanding why religious people need to obsesses about gay sex when the planet is dying, and they could be obsessing about that instead, to rather greater effect.

In a society that is not yet industrialised or in a industrial society that is falling apart sexual relations must be strictly regulated to stabilise family relations that carry economic meaning.

And how does this explain the continuing obsession with Teh Gay and sexual morality among the majority of religious people in countries that do have a welfare state, and have had one for a good few generations?

At best you can say there's a bit of a context problem happening there.

Incidentally, when I say 'morally trivial' I mean - obviously - that (e.g.) gay marriage doesn't exercise the imaginations of non-religious people to anything like the extent it exercises those of the religious.

If it's not morally trivial in this culture - i.e. self-evidently a non-issue that shouldn't even need to be debated among civilised people - it's almost entirely due to the strenuous efforts of our established religions, not because yours truly thinks it's not that important actually.

by ThatBritGuy (thatbritguy (at) googlemail.com) on Mon Feb 10th, 2014 at 07:57:32 AM EST
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Unless they're atheist rights, in which case they're 'sectarian' - and therefore not actually rights, but privileges.

This is offensive. I have never said anything like what you put into my mouth there. You make that up.

ThatBritGuy:

Oh - and for context, I'm still not understanding why religious people need to obsesses about gay sex when the planet is dying, and they could be obsessing about that instead, to rather greater effect.

So far I have understood you in the way that you oppose religious communities to conduct marriages of gays, they should fight the climate change instead. So you are not opposed to gay sex, inside or outside civil or religious marriage. How nice, a point of agreement. When religious people obsess about gay sex, as you deplore, why is that worse than non-religious people obsessing about gay sex?

ThatBritGuy:

And how does this explain the continuing obsession with Teh Gay and sexual morality among the majority of religious people in countries that do have a welfare state, and have had one for a good few generations?

You may not have noticed, but the welfare state is in danger. That might explain some obsession of the non-religious and the religious.

I doubt very much that it is a majority, though. Official Catholic doctrine is "obsessing", but who cares? "Majority" implies that this is uncontroversial. In Germany the Catholic Church has just commissioned a poll on sexual mores, and found out that its members find the official views on sex and partnership irrelevant. Detailed results are kept secret, though. I wouldn't be surprised if the attitudes in other European countries were the same, but I have no data for them. You obviously have, because you made the claim. Why don't you share your data?

by Katrin on Mon Feb 10th, 2014 at 09:32:47 AM EST
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Detailed results are kept secret, though.

haha.

churches should perhaps face the fact that people need churches for totally dissimilar reasons then the ones projected on them by the churchmen, ie a peaceful place to meditate, a social nexus, and a refuge for the desperate, rather than a place to soak up dogma and unquestioned 'Higher Truth'.

right now those secret results scream institutional denial.

but let's not forget this thread was about protecting young moslem girls from authoritarian states, not religion in toto. sorry for the intellectual drift!

'The history of public debt is full of irony. It rarely follows our ideas of order and justice.' Thomas Piketty

by melo (melometa4(at)gmail.com) on Mon Feb 10th, 2014 at 11:28:00 AM EST
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This is offensive. I have never said anything like what you put into my mouth there. You make that up.

Sigh...

You used the word 'sectarian'. You also used words like 'privilege' and 'Stalinist.' It's in the archives.

If you don't want to people to quote your own words back to you, don't say this stuff. It's not rocket science.

You may not have noticed, but the welfare state is in danger. That might explain some obsession of the non-religious and the religious.

With the welfare state, yes. With gay marriage - huh? Are you saying people believe gay marriage will undermine free healthcare or their pension plan?

In Germany the Catholic Church has just commissioned a poll on sexual mores, and found out that its members find the official views on sex and partnership irrelevant. Detailed results are kept secret, though. I wouldn't be surprised if the attitudes in other European countries were the same, but I have no data for them. You obviously have, because you made the claim. Why don't you share your data?

There's a useful survey here: YouGov poll.

Generally members are more liberal than leaders, which is interesting in itself. Also:

The section of religious people most opposed to same-sex marriage is made up of those who both (a) believe in God with certainty and (b) make decisions primarily on the basis of explicit religious sources  - God, scriptures, teachings and religious leaders. This `moral minority' of strict believers amounts to almost 9% of the population, and is spread across religious traditions, with a greater concentration among Baptists and Muslims.

Although in practice I'd suggest this boils down to 'liberals are liberal, non-liberals aren't.'

Wasn't the point originally that religious attitudes tend to lag secular ones rather than lead them, and that if you embed religious attitudes in a secular culture they will eventually become less extreme? I do believe it was.

I have no idea what European-wide attitudes are. I doubt it's possible to generalise when - for example - Poland is staunchly Catholic, while Finland very much isn't.

I look forward to further responses that tell me I'm disgusting and full of shit, by the way. Have you considered that perhaps name-calling is not the most persuasive of tactics in this context?

by ThatBritGuy (thatbritguy (at) googlemail.com) on Mon Feb 10th, 2014 at 02:22:55 PM EST
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ThatBritGuy:
You used the word 'sectarian'. You also used words like 'privilege' and 'Stalinist.' It's in the archives.

Yes, but I did not use them for saying what you say I said.

ThatBritGuy:

With gay marriage - huh? Are you saying people believe gay marriage will undermine free healthcare or their pension plan?

I am saying that family gets a significance that it had already lost. People will depend more on family than they used to. Ask all those young people in Greece and Spain why they are still living with their parents. My generation will get a very low pension, much lower than what my parents had. Right wing ideologies emphasising family relations do make sense when the social net is cut. Successful ideological strategies always connect somehow with real fears or interests.

ThatBritGuy:

Generally members are more liberal than leaders, which is interesting in itself.

That contradicts your claim that "the majority of religious people" was obsessed against gays, doesn't it?

ThatBritGuy:

I have no idea what European-wide attitudes are. I doubt it's possible to generalise when - for example - Poland is staunchly Catholic, while Finland very much isn't.

Good. Then it would be very helpful if you no longer claimed to know the attitudes of "the majority of religious people".

ThatBritGuy:

I look forward to further responses that tell me I'm disgusting and full of shit, by the way. Have you considered that perhaps name-calling is not the most persuasive of tactics in this context?

I have considered a lot, and perhaps you noticed that for a few days I didn't answer any of your posts at all. There is not much I can do with a person who twists everything I say. I have run out of persuasive tactics in this case: the written language of our posts is the only means of communication we have here. If that is twisted, what can one do? By the way, before you develop the next variant of twisting of posts: I did not call you disgusting or full of shit. I called your posts that.

You entered this discussion (on the previous thread) shrugging off the human rights violations Muslims face in Europe with "try and open a pub in Saudi Arabia", which I find atrocious enough (if it really needs pointing out why: you are entitled to human rights no matter if your government violates them.) And you went on by twisting the meaning of every post of mine. No I have never demanded any privileges for the religious or religious organisations. I demand that we aren't disadvantaged though. You have made clear that religious freedom does not exist for you.

Your behaviour is not that of "everyone" here. I have quarrelled with Jake and Eurogreen, and there was unfairness on both sides. I am sorry about that, but I don't know any way how I could have avoided it except by not raising the topic, and I no longer wanted that. Your behaviour, claiming over and over again that I say what in reality I never said, is different and it is offensive. No, I don't think I am treating you unfairly. I understand that you had some very unwholesome experience and generalise, but it is really nothing I am responsible for.

by Katrin on Mon Feb 10th, 2014 at 03:55:21 PM EST
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