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It is generally accepted that there are limits to parents' prerogatives. It is also generally accepted that there are limits to what caretakers may impose upon those society has for whatever reason judged incompetent (children among them). It is not by any means obvious, then, that religious indoctrination (or political - did I forget to clarify that I find it equally inappropriate to enroll children in a political party?) should fall on one side of that boundary or the other.
Reasonable people may disagree, both on which side of the line religious or political indoctrination falls, and on what constitutes indoctrination.
- Jake Friends come and go. Enemies accumulate.
I find it interesting that you decide to quote that particular paragraph, rather than the one immediately preceding it, or the one before that.
Do you find I quoted you uncharitably or worse, misrepresentingly?
JakeS:
It is generally accepted that there are limits to parents' prerogatives. It is also generally accepted that there are limits to what caretakers may impose upon those society has for whatever reason judged incompetent (children among them).
True.
It is not by any means obvious, then, that religious indoctrination (or political - did I forget to clarify that I find it equally inappropriate to enroll children in a political party?) should fall on one side of that boundary or the other.
It is by no means obvious that the presence of religion has to be treated differently from the absence of religion! That is our point of disagreement here. You cannot live in a parent-child-relationship without showing and teaching (by being a model, for instance) your value system and what it is based in. It would be child abuse if you tried. So, the presence or absence of religion naturally is at the core of parents' rights to determine their children's education. Teachers (in the public education system) have a duty to neutrality, for reasons of separation of state and church.
All this is not really contested in un-exotic places, I think. There is a wider debate on headscarf-bans and the like. There is another debate on circumcision for religious reasons. But a debate about the right of parents to raise their children in a religion (as opposed to raising them without religion, which you find okay) is something unusual. I don't think it is a topic outside ET. (It is not even a topic of conflict between my non-religious husband and me, by the way.) ET is a very weird place...
I note that you failed to list non-religious indoctrination, and I don't think you merely forgot it. Remarkable prejudice, I must say.
By the way, when I went to a demonstration for the first time, I was 12 years old.
It is by no means obvious that the presence of religion has to be treated differently from the absence of religion!
So, the presence or absence of religion naturally is at the core of parents' rights to determine their children's education.
I note that you failed to list non-religious indoctrination, and I don't think you merely forgot it.
Proselytizing to people you hold power over is not generally held to be an important part of freedom of religion
I don't see the position of parents towards their children as a position of power in the first place. It is complicated in what ways parents exercise power even in families where biological parenthood, legal guardianship, and social parentship are the same (which in my family is not the case, because my children are foster children--with whom I am entrusted by the public child welfare). Let's look at the places where you see power relations at work which would preclude attempts at proselytising. The school system is neutral for reasons of separation of church and state, so the question doesn't arise here, I think. The same is true for the prison system. Work relations? I wonder where that would arise: probably only in the most exploitative work places (where it wouldn't be the most urgent problem by comparison) anyway, because elsewhere people aren't quite defenceless. That leaves of your examples the doctor. Yes, I remember a particularly nasty and painful treatment during which the doctor started talking extremely reactionary politics. I resented that a lot of course, and I find that behaviour highly unethical, but I fail to see how efficient proselytising in such a position of power can take place.
So, in short, I fail to see the relevance of the power argument, unless in connection with your paragraph on misinformation, which I answered. What's more, I would find an education style abusive that tries to hide such an important part of one's personality: education by the parents is education by the entire personality of the parents.
Was this really so central to your argument that my leaving it out amounted to a distortion of what you said? I still don't see it.
Where would you draw the line anyway? Would you ban parents from practising a religion? Or only from explaining what they are doing? And are you really saying that the Jacobin stance on religion is less controversial than the right of parents to determine their children's religion?
I'm not clear on how you'd go about indoctrinating people to not-believe something, except by indoctrinating them to believe something mutually exclusive.
I assume that you believe there is no God. You can't know though. You are free to believe that, and to teach it to your children. That's what I mean when I want the presence of religion treated in the same way as the absence of religion. It doesn't contradict your statement at all: JakeS:
No reason other than freedom of religion: If I am not free from your religion, then I am not free to practice my own.
Right. Agree completely. And if I am not free from your a-religion, then I am not free to practice my religion. Do you agree?
That depends whether you believe 'practice' automatically includes the right to force your religion on your kids in ways that will cripple their ability to make free adult choices about spirituality later in life.
Look - this isn't hard. The Jesuits know how this works. Francis Xavier said 'Give me a child until he is seven and I will give you the man.'
Considering how tolerant the Jesuits were, it's unlikely he meant '...Because my tender care is the best way to promote free spiritual choice for adults.'
I haven't given you the slightest reason to assume I wanted to force or cripple children or their abilities, and I resent that you insinuate I did.
Unfortunately that doesn't alter the fact that you're promoting systems of belief that can have that effect in practice, while heroically ignoring all the arguments and evidence that they do.
you're promoting systems of belief that can have that effect in practice
while you are representing the totally unblemished record of atheist movements. I see.
I don't see the position of parents towards their children as a position of power in the first place.
It is complicated in what ways parents exercise power
Power is not a bad thing per se, but it does come with certain responsibilities, which is why it is extremely worrisome when people who hold power over others pretend that they do not.
The school system is neutral for reasons of separation of church and state,
Work relations? I wonder where that would arise: probably only in the most exploitative work places (where it wouldn't be the most urgent problem by comparison) anyway, because elsewhere people aren't quite defenceless.
That leaves of your examples the doctor. Yes, I remember a particularly nasty and painful treatment during which the doctor started talking extremely reactionary politics. I resented that a lot of course, and I find that behaviour highly unethical, but I fail to see how efficient proselytising in such a position of power can take place.
Does Dr. Schroder really believe he's being non-coercive? I mean, seriously. Think about it. Let's say you're an atheist. You're about to go under the knife for, let's say, a cholecystectomy. Your surgeon, after explaining once again the risks and benefits of surgery, asks you if you want to pray with him? Do you refuse? Or are you intimidated because you don't want to piss off the man who is about to cut into your body in order to forcibly rearrange your anatomy for therapeutic effect? [...] It's one thing if the patient asks the surgeon if he wants to pray with him, completely unprompted. In that case, I don't see a problem. In fact, even I would probably join in (after trying to beg off once perhaps), because in the end to me it's all about the patient and I'm not about to do anything that makes the patient feel uncomfortable or lose confidence in me, my heathen tendencies notwithstanding. But that's not what Dr. Schroder is talking about.
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It's one thing if the patient asks the surgeon if he wants to pray with him, completely unprompted. In that case, I don't see a problem. In fact, even I would probably join in (after trying to beg off once perhaps), because in the end to me it's all about the patient and I'm not about to do anything that makes the patient feel uncomfortable or lose confidence in me, my heathen tendencies notwithstanding. But that's not what Dr. Schroder is talking about.
Where would you draw the line anyway? Would you ban parents from practising a religion? Or only from explaining what they are doing?
In terms of propriety, I draw the line at actively initiating. As with the doctor-patient relationship, it is one thing for the party in power to answer honestly (or even to answer what they believe the other party needs to hear). It is quite another to start pushing answers in search of questions.
And are you really saying that the Jacobin stance on religion is less controversial than the right of parents to determine their children's religion?
I assume that you believe there is no God. You can't know though. You are free to believe that, and to teach it to your children. That's what I mean when I want the presence of religion treated in the same way as the absence of religion.
But then, I never had a problem with "nobody really knows the answer to that question." And, when they get a bit older, "nobody really knows if there is an answer to that question."
And if I am not free from your a-religion, then I am not free to practice my religion. Do you agree?
No, that's actually quite straightforward. If somebody decides where your bed is, what you eat, when you sleep, how much money you have to spend, what you can spend it on, where you spend the majority of your waking hours, and even to some extent who you am allowed to socialize with in your free time, then they wield power over you
If, yes. In reality children aren't THAT weak-willed, and your parental options to enforce all that are limited, with good reason. And these limits enforce a more democratic education style than what was usual when I was a child. So, parental power depends to a certain extent on negotiation skills on both sides.
No, the school and penal systems should be neutral because they wield power over its inmates. The fact that they are state institutions (in most of the first world) is neither here nor there - the fixation on protecting citizens from the state, rather than from abuse of asymmetric power relationships in general - is a pernicious Libertarian obsession.
Ha, THAT can of worms probably deserves a better place than somewhere in this long thread. You probably don't deny how quickly democratic control of a state can break down, and how totalitarian the immense power of the state then becomes. I am quite fixated on protecting citizens from the state, and not shy about it.
No, institutions of the state should be neutral, because they are for all citizens, not only the religious ones. In a (theoretical) state of 100% voluntary adherents of the same religion it wouldn't matter.
That is not true for sexual or racial harassment. Why should we expect it to be for religious?
Because efficient proselytising implies persuasion, not harassment. I find it unlikely (or extremely rare), not impossible. But I really find the example of the doctor is where you can illustrate your point best, and I agree that the abuse of power is a problem. You cited this as an argument to limit parents' right to raise their children in a religion though. You asked how to deal with the combination of position of power and proselytising.
This is from the text you quote:
in the end to me it's all about the patient and I'm not about to do anything that makes the patient feel uncomfortable or lose confidence in me,
If you want an analogy to parents raising their children, you must look at what we expect as responsible behaviour there. I have no issue with rules to prevent abuse of power under the heading of what is (ir-)responsible behaviour for a defined group. I object to rules under the heading of limiting freedom of religion. This difference sounds perhaps academic, but I think it enables drawing the border between tolerable and intolerable behaviour accurately. The rules (and sanctions!) for a doctor must be different from those for parents.
I am afraid, I have an issue with your differentiation between legality and propriety. Propriety or moral are not political. Do you want to legally ban and sanction a certain behaviour? Or do you want to ape the politicians who lamented the use of "financial instruments" as improper that they had legalised? Well, if next they declare bicycle theft legal but improper, everyone is free to steal bicycles and that is all that counts. So the only question is what parents can do before you send out child welfare officers.
In principle. In practice, I am having some difficulty coming up with a realistic example of not-belief imposing on believers
At last. I am quite content with "in principle" and I have no issue with your lack of imagination. ;) I guess any thoughts what you are going to teach your own children are a bit premature, right? Only then you need to determine what is proper more than what is legal, of course.
If, yes. In reality children aren't THAT weak-willed, and your parental options to enforce all that are limited,
Pre-teen children have no formal voice on where they go to school (nevermind whether...). Pre-teen children have no formal voice on where they live (unless their biological parents happen to have divorced and they live in one of the world's more progressive jurisdictions). Pre-teen children have no personal finances, nor any legal means of obtaining a regular income. Which in an urbanized society means that they have no independent legal means of obtaining food and shelter.
Pretending that those barriers to self-determination can be overcome by sufficient application of willpower is nothing short of delusional.
Of course there are excellent reasons for society to recognize certain parental prerogatives and deny certain choices to pre-teen children. But the fact that there are good reasons for the asymmetric power relationship to be tolerated doesn't change the fact that you are talking about an asymmetric power relationship.
Because efficient proselytising implies persuasion, not harassment.
Indeed. That is the ethical position we expect from a doctor, and have a right to expect. And we can enforce it by sanctioning behaviour that disregards these responsibilities.
In practice, it's hard enough to even nail doctors for sexually abusing their patients, nevermind emotionally abusing them.
I object to rules under the heading of limiting freedom of religion.
Or is it that children have no religious freedom?
Or is it just that you don't understand how freedom from religion is an indispensable part of freedom of religion?
The difference between banks and parents is that where parents enjoy the presumption that they are reasonable and responsible, banks should be regulated under the presumption that they are Ponzi merchants and three-card monte dealers.
So if the dude who decides whether you get to eat tonight - or any night at all for the next six to twelve years - insists that you say grace over the food before you get to eat it, then that's not a problem for your religious freedom?
Believe me, parents have no choice, they are obligated to feed their children. Actually the power of parents is limited--which really was what I have tried to convey. To shorten this part a bit: you are talking about relationships where people might be able to force persons into a religion. I don't advocate force or abuse of power or the like.
What you don't accept, I think, is the following: parents have a system of values which they pass on to their children. Religion is only one part of this, but, it IS part of what parents do by right. When you teach your children what your values and ethics and beliefs are (by conversations, setting an example or whatever) they have no real choice either. They are confronted with their parents' values and can only develop their own priorities when they are growing up. So, there is no real freedom from religion for the children of the religious or freedom to adopt religion for the children of atheists as long as they are children.
I disagree with the idea that society has no escalation points between cheap talk and sending in child protection.
I don't want to depend on somebody's opinion of what is proper or not. I have really strong views on arbitrariness and so. If society wants to set a norm, that's called a law, but you were talking about additional norms set by propriety. Say what behaviour you want to outlaw, and what interventions you dream of if the banned behaviour occurs. And if you want to limit any fundamental rights, kindly point out why your proposal is a proportionate measure of maintaining a conflicting fundamental right.
It also falls quite far short of what is commonly understood by the purported parental "right" to induct children into a religion, or a political orientation. And even farther short of what is commonly justified by appeal to that "right."
It also falls quite far short of what is commonly understood by the purported parental "right" to induct children into a religion, or a political orientation.
Does it? I wonder what "commonly understood" means for you? I really should ask you for evidence for that statement...
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