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Nobody in my circle of childhood friends labored under any particularly burdensome standard of "being cool." And their parents had lost their respect all by themselves.

Yes, there are kids who side with their parents and don't think there's any problem.

There are also kids who put on a brave face and make the best of what they realize is a shit situation.

And then there are also kids who put on a brave face because their experience with society's institutions is that the first, and often only, response is to make mouth-noises at the abusive parent, instead of actually solving the problem.

I don't know which of those three groups is the more prevalent, and it is probably different for different age brackets. But then, I'm not the one who makes blanket statements about the reaction of the vast majority of kids.

- Jake

Friends come and go. Enemies accumulate.

by JakeS (JangoSierra 'at' gmail 'dot' com) on Wed Feb 12th, 2014 at 07:20:53 PM EST
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You don't answer my question about age. I can absolutely not fathom at which point of child psychology you disagree or if you simply aren't conversant with attachment theory. Or is your question not meant as nomothetically as it sounds? You baffle me, and I have no idea which sort of material ("data") you need. I was NOT talking about "kids who side with their parents" or "kids who put on a brave face". Additionally you seem to be talking about social services not intervening in cases of abuse. Did you notice that I was discussing HOW social services should intervene in cases of abuse? What do you know about bonding in childhood and adolescence?

by Katrin on Thu Feb 13th, 2014 at 08:31:48 AM EST
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I can absolutely not fathom at which point of child psychology you disagree

I disagree with a lot of points about child psychology as practiced, and I find most of the little psychological theory I have read to be an equal mix of common sense and nonsense, wrapped in far too much polysyllabic jargon.

I also have some difficulty relating the theory-as-written to the actual practice.

And in both theory and practice I far too often for my comfort find myself unimpressed with the answers to simple questions like "do you have any evidence for that?"

- Jake

Friends come and go. Enemies accumulate.

by JakeS (JangoSierra 'at' gmail 'dot' com) on Thu Feb 13th, 2014 at 02:24:24 PM EST
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